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Sorry to hear about your situation. Yes, I have been in that situation myself. I took my son and left him because I wouldnt be able to trust him completely and that alone would just be a constant reminder in the back of my heart if I stayed. I did make the right choice because its over 20 years and he is still fooling around on his second wife and also wanted to fool around with me behind her back (ugh) BUT everyone is different. If you can honestly believe in your heart that he will change and you can rebuild the trust and forgive him then maybe its worth a shot. I really hope he is sincere and really do want to save his marriage and family. I have known other friends who have gone thru the same thing and it was really hard but the other halfs really tried to be sensitive, understanding and have lot of patience and control their tempers and was able to save their marriage and still is going strong. Im not sure of your faith, but it also helps when both party attend christian services together. It strengthen it. Good Luck
I would have exactly the same problem, the trust issue. I did not want to say it before, didn't want to push anyone in any direction, but since you already said it...
Why is this man trying to validate himself to bunch of strangers? So weird.
I could care less what he thinks about our opinions, for what I know, bunch of what he said is untrue.
Poor Megan.
They need to start talking between each other rather then us. It will do them more good.
Thread closed for moderator review. Thanks, everyone.
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