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Last Christmas, I sent a notice that included the phrase: "...however you choose to celebrate, or not celebrate, the holiday season, I hope this finds you happy, healthy, and at peace."
And basically, that was the whole message, since I don't usually get into discussions with other people about their beliefs. Like I said above, even though I have a belief system, I may not agree with all the tenets of the associated religion, and I do not usually attend services, or actively pursue it (or others). It's more of a passive thing.
My ex-girlfriend told me that she grew up a Jehovah's Witness--but she hasn't attended services in years. In fact, she acts a lot like an atheist. She said they didn't make a big deal out of Easter, or Christmas, or birthdays.
She even told me I didn't have to get her a cake, but she appreciated the one I went ahead and made for her (of course, I had a few pieces of it myself!). I did that on the weekend, but her actual birthday was Tuesday.
Yesterday, I had missed a bus (instead of being in the queue, it was double parked behind another bus, and I didn't see it until it pulled away), so I called and asked if she could give me a ride the rest of the way. She said she wasn't feeling so hot, so maybe her boyfriend could give me a ride. Either way, I was going to have to cough up some cash. Less than a taxi maybe, but close.
Anyway, he came and gave me a ride, and showed me a text he got from her on his phone. He has problems remembering things due to a head injury (I had a head injury, and I'm actually great at remembering things). Anyway, she told him something like, "Nice, you couldn't even send me a text wishing me a Happy Birthday".
But then again, she'd always told me that she didn't want people making a fuss over it! And he didn't--he honestly forgot--and she was upset.
Why would people say, "Don't make a fuss," and then get mad because you didn't?
lol because thats how we, woman, are. We say dont make a fuss but really wed like it if you did
When anyone, especially a female says "don't make a fuss", it actually means.
make as much fuss as it is physically possible to make, and then some, buster, or there's gonna be trouble !
^^^^ lol!
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