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I met a really cute guy last night. He and I spent a good deal of time talking and he seems really nice and I'm really looking forward to spending more time with him. (He isn't like casino boy - so far worst red flag - potential baby mama drama, but she's in another state)
Just a question for the guys....now realize this is probably a stupid question and there is an instinctive "no problem" to this question and I know I'm going to get the jokes (y'all won't be able to help yourselves) but I'd really like a real answer pleeeeeeease.
If on the first date, a woman you met told you that the whole time you were talking she wanted to grab you, haul you off into a corner and do non PG-13 things to/with you, how bad would that be? (Thank God he was at work) Since I just met him, I'd prefer ro start with a really wild barely PG-13 make out session. But I know that confession would have him thinking more would happen, and I don't want to do that, but I want to know he's definitely on the "short wait" list.
I met a really cute guy last night. He and I spent a good deal of time talking and he seems really nice and I'm really looking forward to spending more time with him. (He isn't like casino boy - so far worst red flag - potential baby mama drama, but she's in another state)
Just a question for the guys....now realize this is probably a stupid question and there is an instinctive "no problem" to this question and I know I'm going to get the jokes (y'all won't be able to help yourselves) but I'd really like a real answer pleeeeeeease.
If on the first date, a woman you met told you that the whole time you were talking she wanted to grab you, haul you off into a corner and do non PG-13 things to/with you, how bad would that be? (Thank God he was at work) Since I just met him, I'd prefer ro start with a really wild barely PG-13 make out session. But I know that confession would have him thinking more would happen, and I don't want to do that, but I want to know he's definitely on the "short wait" list.
At my own risk: thoughts/opinions?
You are both adults, right? If you like the guy what the Hell!!!
If on the first date, a woman you met told you that the whole time you were talking she wanted to grab you, haul you off into a corner and do non PG-13 things to/with you, how bad would that be? (Thank God he was at work) Since I just met him, I'd prefer ro start with a really wild barely PG-13 make out session. But I know that confession would have him thinking more would happen, and I don't want to do that, but I want to know he's definitely on the "short wait" list.
At my own risk: thoughts/opinions?
Jokes aside, if he's on the short wait list give him some hints other than what you thought.
I would be very flattered (if not a bit flushed ) if someone had the balls to say that to me! woo!
Is the prime-drive behind him wanting to spend so much time with you based on his sexual drive?
You're both consenting adults, in theory. Be safe. I would say have fun - but it would pose the above mentioned question in the back of my mind. You need to get to know eachother, and be able to enjoy eachother's presence putting the sexual tension/release aside, then see how well the relationship stands on it's own 2 feet.
I'm glad you found someone you like. Let's hope the emotions run deeper than the raging hormones, yah?
So wait? You told him you basically want to jump his bones?
I can't imagine any guy having a problem with that!
From a female perspective...if I told a guy that, I would assume that he probably thinks it's going to be a short term ''relationship'' if anything at all. Not that you should hold out by any means! I'm just saying I would go into that situation knowing not to be disappointed if it doesn't work out long term.
But if you've got that kind of drive/desire that soon....why not?! Who knows what could happen...
So wait? You told him you basically want to jump his bones?
I haven't told him that but I was thinking it the while time we were talking
I can't imagine any guy having a problem with that!
From a female perspective...if I told a guy that, I would assume that he probably thinks it's going to be a short term ''relationship'' if anything at all. Not that you should hold out by any means! I'm just saying I would go into that situation knowing not to be disappointed if it doesn't work out long term.
Which is exactly my dilemma.
But if you've got that kind of drive/desire that soon....why not?! Who knows what could happen...
Oh well it looks like me and cold showers are going to have to be friends for a while. I'm not looking for anything short term.
If you are NOT looking for short term, then it's probably best to stick with telling him, "I'm looking forward to seeing you again" rather than "I want to jump your bones"
I would save the "i want to grab your package" comments for the short-term entanglements. If it's long term, it's worth the wait
A rather subtle way of putting is what I said to someone one time after he first kissed me and that was, "Now there's a snack I could make into a meal."
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- but it would pose the above mentioned question in the back of my mind. You need to get to know eachother, and be able to enjoy eachother's presence putting the sexual tension/release aside, then see how well the relationship stands on it's own 2 feet. 
I'm not looking for anything short term.
