37 year old virgin needs help (wives, marry, female, husbands)

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by ny101

How much money and status?

Not every woman is looking for this. Many look for a hard worker, can pay his own bills on time, patient, same likes and dislikes as her, or someone that is interesting(keeps them intrigued), makes them laugh, fun to be around, a go getter, listener, helpful, and so much more.

[ny101]

Originally Posted by betamanlet

are you in manhattan?If you are not a college student, you need to either be really slick, or be rich. There's not much middle ground. Even people I know who went to NYU, Columbia, etc, they said that many of the girls there wouldn't date college guys and would date wall street types. Fortunately I ddin't go to school there and you could be poor and eat ramen and women would date you.

I'm well beyond college. I am well above an icome which would require me to eat ramen but am not rich like the wall street types. It's very expensive here but I did manage to buy a small place in a good building.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by ny101

Women - true or not true? Please answer honestly.

Honestly? What he said is fairly accurate. But we don't really like to admit or discuss this. Especially the ridicule... a friend of mine recently kept describing her man as "Mr Three Minutes." So when I met the guy, all I could think was "This man is a really lousy lay."

[betamanlet]

Originally Posted by ny101

I'm well beyond college. I am well above an icome which would require me to eat ramen but am not rich like the wall street types. It's very expensive here but I did manage to buy a small place in a good building.

NY is still not a good place for someone like you to be.

[betamanlet]

Originally Posted by Onglet39

Honestly? What he said is fairly accurate. But we don't really like to admit or discuss this. Especially the ridicule... a friend of mine recently kept describing her man as "Mr Three Minutes." So when I met the guy, all I could think was "This man is a really lousy lay."

The first thing women do if they break up with you is insult you some way sexually, penis size, something about performance, some k ind of insult. That's always the first thing.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by betamanlet

The first thing women do if they break up with you is insult you some way sexually, penis size, something about performance, some k ind of insult. That's always the first thing.

I've certainly never done that.

[betamanlet]

Originally Posted by Onglet39

I've certainly never done that.

lots do though. How often to men insult women about their bodies or sexual performance? I don't know anyone who ever has. I certainly haven't.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by betamanlet

lots do though. How often to men insult women about their bodies or sexual performance? I don't know anyone who ever has. I certainly haven't.

Actually, my husband used to tease me by saying I had "back fat." I developed a complex over it. In fact, it led to the end of our sex lives.

Unfortunately, both genders can be equally nasty in their own special way.

[Ep-]

^ never really seen a woman do that...

[FrmlyBklyn]

Originally Posted by betamanlet

are you in manhattan?If you are not a college student, you need to either be really slick, or be rich. There's not much middle ground. Even people I know who went to NYU, Columbia, etc, they said that many of the girls there wouldn't date college guys and would date wall street types. Fortunately I ddin't go to school there and you could be poor and eat ramen and women would date you.

Give me a break, already! The man does not need to be slick or rich like the Wall Street types - you've been watching too much Wall Street, pal. It's not like Gordon Geckoville downtown, in fact, the a$$'s who walk around like Gordon are far and few between, most of them are running boiler room chop shops.

NYC101 - is it a self-esteem problem? maybe you are suffering from Low-T? When was the last time you went to a urologist?

If you own a place in NYC - I wouldn't be worrying about your ability to go out on a date - you do not have to take your dates to the Water Club for brunch or dinner. Chicks like dudes who own their own place. Believe me pal, most chicks are up to their eyeballs in debt, open their wallet, out will fall a multiude of credit cards. You want to find Ms. Right, not Ms. Right Now.

Relax, take a deep breath, and most of all do not be setting an age limitation as to when you meet Ms. Right. I'll give you an example, friend who btw is a Columbia grad and making good coin, didn't get married until 42, had a kid at 43 and is living out in the burb's today. If you are aiming to be married by 38 or 39, you are setting yourself up for failure. It will happen for you.