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Nice girls are at home with their families or alone wondering where all the nice guys are.
Most nice girls (not a judgment against those who do this) are not at clubs or bars, but at the library, maybe the park, maybe again, just at home frustrated and wondering 'where' to connect with nice guys.
I would say I am the quintessential girl next door type but because I was not out partying or not the 'type' guys want at 21 or 25 where I am from, I never met many guys.
I was a nice girl, moral, funny, smart, pretty and rarely dated. Fortunately I connected with my husband in a non-traditional way.
Now that we're giving our definitions for what we think "nice" means, here's mine:
Pleasant, personable, a reliable friend, someone you WANT to spend time with because you enjoy having them around.
As opposed to someone who is repellent, miserable, depressing, arrogant etc.
IMO some people are mistaken when they think the word "nice" is wholly positive. to me it roughly means "unoffensive, but dull."
And frequently used by gals with a but statement:
You are a nice guy, but...
I never liked being referred to as a nice guy. I always took this to be a slight by the one making it. It is not the same as saying You are desirable. So the word can have different meanings depending on usage. Though I will admit I am not nice at all, but I like to think I am Honorable in the old fashioned sense of the word.
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And frequently used by gals with a but statement:
You are a nice guy, but...
I never liked being referred to as a nice guy. I always took this to be a slight by the one making it. It is not the same as saying You are desirable. So the word can have different meanings depending on usage. Though I will admit I am not nice at all, but I like to think I am Honorable in the old fashioned sense of the word.
I love 'nice'. But all nice means to me is someone who won't play games or play you, period. Even 'nice guys' I've dated have issues like not-so-nice guys, which I haven't been attracted to since...forever.
A lot of men prefer 'nice girls' and the smart/experienced ones know that 'nice girl' in public isn't necessarily synonymous with 'nice girl in bed'.
That's what I was saying; you said it using several hundred less words. All our family and friends think my wife is so
straight-laced". Geez if they only knew. Before she was my wife, she once told me --
"I'll be your saint in the kitchen and your wh ore in the bedroom."
Now that we're empty-nesters she's discovered the kitchen is just as fun. And the outdoor shower, my workshop, the laundry room, and believe it or not on the roof one time behind the cupola when I was changing the flag. Yeah you "nice girls" are soooo boring.
I really don't think I remember having trouble with women being nice in person. They can get pretty nasty in this forum or in an SUV, but most women I know act rather nice towards me. I certainly prefer that and its not a turn off. There are other things that turn me off from a relationship perspective but not that.
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That's what I was saying; you said it using several hundred less words. All our family and friends think my wife is so
straight-laced". Geez if they only knew. Before she was my wife, she once told me --
"I'll be your saint in the kitchen and your wh ore in the bedroom."
Now that we're empty-nesters she's discovered the kitchen is just as fun. And the outdoor shower, my workshop, the laundry room, and believe it or not on the roof one time behind the cupola when I was changing the flag. Yeah you "nice girls" are soooo boring.
Like I said in your rep--Finally! A man who gets it. Gets us*.
That's what I was saying; you said it using several hundred less words. All our family and friends think my wife is so
straight-laced". Geez if they only knew. Before she was my wife, she once told me --
"I'll be your saint in the kitchen and your wh ore in the bedroom."
Now that we're empty-nesters she's discovered the kitchen is just as fun. And the outdoor shower, my workshop, the laundry room, and believe it or not on the roof one time behind the cupola when I was changing the flag. Yeah you "nice girls" are soooo boring.
Hi .5CelBi,
I happen to be one of those that believes a lot of boring sex begins with the man. A lot of "nice girls" will go along for the ride. If one is persistent you can usually find out what is in their dirty minds.
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That's what I was saying; you said it using several hundred less words. All our family and friends think my wife is so
straight-laced". Geez if they only knew. Before she was my wife, she once told me --
"I'll be your saint in the kitchen and your wh ore in the bedroom."
Now that we're empty-nesters she's discovered the kitchen is just as fun. And the outdoor shower, my workshop, the laundry room, and believe it or not on the roof one time behind the cupola when I was changing the flag. Yeah you "nice girls" are soooo boring.
Btw, same can be said for 'nice guys'. The wildest rides are often the seemingly safest ones. In other words, what you see isn't always what you get.
This Nice guy/girl nonsense comes up in this forum all the time and its a myth. Why can't the nice guys find the nice girls??? Because if they found each other they would just be normal guys and girls
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