Are good girls being ignored? (date, movies, marriage, women)
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With all the negativity on the forum about women I often find myself scratching my head in bewilderment
I regularly meet very sweet girls, and yes many of them are beautiful, dispelling the myth that you have to be ugly to have a good personality. But lots of them are single despite it being obvious that they're interested in meeting guys. Usually they do end up getting married eventually but I would think they should be in much higher demand than they seem to be.
The only reason I can think of for this is that nice girls tend not to stand out. Sometimes it's that they're shy. But whatever the case they can easily be missed if you're not looking for them.
It makes me laugh that these self-proclaimed 'nice guys' say that ALL women are terrible/crazy/gold-diggers. Either they aren't really nice guys and so they aren't attracting the nice girls. Or they're distracted by the flash of some princess.
With all the negativity on the forum about women I often find myself scratching my head in bewilderment
I regularly meet very sweet girls, and yes many of them are beautiful, dispelling the myth that you have to be ugly to have a good personality. But lots of them are single despite it being obvious that they're interested in meeting guys. Usually they do end up getting married eventually but I would think they should be in much higher demand than they seem to be.
The only reason I can think of for this is that nice girls tend not to stand out. Sometimes it's that they're shy. But whatever the case they can easily be missed if you're not looking for them.
It makes me laugh that these self-proclaimed 'nice guys' say that ALL women are terrible/crazy/gold-diggers. Either they aren't really nice guys and so they aren't attracting the nice girls. Or they're distracted by the flash of some princess.
No, a total of 1,500 people has a big part of it! How many do you think are available women?LMAO...... I do have about 40,000 reasonably close. How many do you think are available women? See where I am going with this?LMAO......
I'm a "self-proclaimed nice guy" and I have also been told that I am TOO nice.
It's funny that you meet cool, beautiful, intelligent women on a (semi) regular basis, can we trade?
Anyways, I don't say that all women are terrible/crazy/gold diggers, but usually when I am really looking for a decent girl, they aren't available to me. Many of them in fact DO stand out, but they're just never available.. I've never been "distracted by the flash of some princess" nor have I never been mean to anyone who didn't deserve it.
Some guys are only looking for sex, and nice girls are looking for more. It is hard to find a guy, who is looking for a relationship and willing to give a girl time to decide if she wants to be in a relationship before they are ready for sex. There are also many girls willing to engage in casual sex, and some guys don't date the ones who aren't.
With all the negativity on the forum about women I often find myself scratching my head in bewilderment
I regularly meet very sweet girls, and yes many of them are beautiful, dispelling the myth that you have to be ugly to have a good personality. But lots of them are single despite it being obvious that they're interested in meeting guys. Usually they do end up getting married eventually but I would think they should be in much higher demand than they seem to be.
The only reason I can think of for this is that nice girls tend not to stand out. Sometimes it's that they're shy. But whatever the case they can easily be missed if you're not looking for them.
It makes me laugh that these self-proclaimed 'nice guys' say that ALL women are terrible/crazy/gold-diggers. Either they aren't really nice guys and so they aren't attracting the nice girls. Or they're distracted by the flash of some princess.
Men seldom make passes at girls who wear glasses
Well, the problem with the good girls is basically the same as with the nice guys. They're plain boring. Sure, they can take care of you, but most of the guys actually need to be taken care of only when they get older.
I am talking about awesome guys here, of course: good looking, nice personality, faithful, stable. Good girls don't go for less.
Like you know in teen movies:
Good girl (closet hottie, smart, super sweet, shy) has a very nice guy chasing her and doing everything for her (loves her), but he's just a friend, while all that girl ever wants is the highschool Freddie Prinze, Jr.
Rugged would take a gal with glasses any day over the riff-raff I have dated. That is a big problem around here. These types seldom get a divorce and you are left with whats left. You may get lucky and find a shy one that hasn't been discovered yet. I know that the bad ones will go away and I'll find what I am looking for. I just wish they would be honest with me. If they would have been honest and shown their true colors I would have never even went out with the ones I did. I'm not "that guy" and want nothing to do with those types of women. I guess I am just a sucker and always throw it all on the line. Just because someone came from a bad family or marriage doesn't necessarily mean they are bad. I know they exists and won't give up.
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