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Old 04-27-2010, 01:29 PM
 
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But I really don't care about the fact you wish to read my words and ascribe a beeotchy tone to it. The tone of this post, for instance, is quite straight and devoid of emotion.

ETA: I will agree with the phrase "distinct lack of diplomacy" in regard to some of my posts. But I'll also admit, I don't care.
That much is obvious.

Something tells me that the minute you give men this kind of attitude, the more smarmy among them will put you right into the "fiesty, might be a good conquest for a quick lay" category while the good ones will think "too beeotchy for me."

Good luck finding the kind of man you seek, Onglet. You're going to need it.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:38 PM
 
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ETA: I will agree with the phrase "distinct lack of diplomacy" in regard to some of my posts. But I'll also admit, I don't care.
Good, now that diplomacy is removed from the equation. Then I can be blunt:

I see a gal who thinks only of her physical attraction. (And I do not find it that impressive from her photo). I see an abrasive personality as evidenced from her posting style. I see an older gal that is desperate for financial security and is hoping to trade on her looks like some kind of teenager. I see someone that I would never trust to be faithful due to a comment of keeping a sexual partner in reserve, just in case.

At no time do I see a women that has anything that is attractive to me. Now to whether you can be attractive to other men, who knows? I do not presume to speak for them.

Blunt and undiplomatic was my unemotional response, you should be pleased.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:41 PM
 
Location: NYC
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That much is obvious.

Something tells me that the minute you give men this kind of attitude, the more smarmy among them will put you right into the "fiesty, might be a good conquest for a quick lay" category while the good ones will think "too beeotchy for me."

Good luck finding the kind of man you seek, Onglet. You're going to need it.
Honestly, I don't care what something is telling you about me. Why would I?

I've been online since 1997 and this "I know you through your postings" is a tiresome meme. I don't understand why you feel the need to pat yourself on the back constantly after posting long soliloquies about the personal foibles of random internet strangers... but hey you are free to get your entertainment as you wish. Personally I find it weird, but that's just me.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:47 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Good, now that diplomacy is removed from the equation. Then I can be blunt:

I see a gal who thinks only of her physical attraction. (And I do not find it that impressive from her photo). I see an abrasive personality as evidenced from her posting style. I see an older gal that is desperate for financial security and is hoping to trade on her looks like some kind of teenager. I see someone that I would never trust to be faithful due to a comment of keeping a sexual partner in reserve, just in case.

At no time do I see a women that has anything that is attractive to me. Now to whether you can be attractive to other men, who knows? I do not presume to speak for them.

Blunt and undiplomatic was my unemotional response, you should be pleased.
Honey I make six figures a year. The reason I noted that I had to start over financially is because I had to pay off my ex-husband. Yes, it happens to women too, but we don't always become angry about it the way that men do.

And I have very accurately described myself as average, receiving a slight boost because so few people take care of themselves anymore.

This post is a ridiculous reach. Obviously I hurt your feeling earlier so you are grasping at straws in order to save face. Were I you, I wouldn't get so emotionally wounded over what strangers type in response to your words.

I think you need a time-out.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:51 PM
 
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Good, now that diplomacy is removed from the equation. Then I can be blunt:

I see a gal who thinks only of her physical attraction. (And I do not find it that impressive from her photo). I see an abrasive personality as evidenced from her posting style. I see an older gal that is desperate for financial security and is hoping to trade on her looks like some kind of teenager. I see someone that I would never trust to be faithful due to a comment of keeping a sexual partner in reserve, just in case.

At no time do I see a women that has anything that is attractive to me. Now to whether you can be attractive to other men, who knows? I do not presume to speak for them.

Blunt and undiplomatic was my unemotional response, you should be pleased.
Blast, I can't rep you again.

It's all very transparent to me: The truth hurts.
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Old 04-27-2010, 01:57 PM
 
Location: NYC
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OK, yes indeed I am poverty stricken and need a man to support me ASAP, that's what its all about. All I've posted about since I've been here on C_D is a lie. I just want a man to help me pay my rent and put food on my table because I'm gone from dead-end job to dead-end job my whole life. And my body is quite terrible so I'm hideous on top of it all. Just ask Avienne and MattB. They would know.

All I really want is a sugar daddy! That's the truth behind this thread!!!

Please will someone help me? PLEASE????? Dinner is coming up soon and I need a man to pay for it!!!!
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Old 04-27-2010, 02:00 PM
 
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Honestly, I don't care what something is telling you about me. Why would I?

I've been online since 1997 and this "I know you through your postings" is a tiresome meme. I don't understand why you feel the need to pat yourself on the back constantly after posting long soliloquies about the personal foibles of random internet strangers... but hey you are free to get your entertainment as you wish. Personally I find it weird, but that's just me.

Nope, not patting myself on the back. This thread is about you, and you are free to take or leave my observations. I'm not the one desperate for a relationship and unable to attract good men, so it makes no difference to me. You want attention, so, you got it, and now you don't like what people tell you. What was that you said earlier? Too bad, so sad for you.

Bye now.
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Old 04-27-2010, 02:03 PM
 
Location: silver springs
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That much is obvious.

Something tells me that the minute you give men this kind of attitude, the more smarmy among them will put you right into the "fiesty, might be a good conquest for a quick lay" category while the good ones will think "too beeotchy for me."

Good luck finding the kind of man you seek, Onglet. You're going to need it.
exactly what I thought ......her attitude is why she is only a bj in a parking lot of a bar.........not good for long term anything
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Old 04-27-2010, 02:05 PM
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you might have luck reading between the lines of his profile. Men who say they enjoy doing all those stereotypical things that seem romantic prolly have a one track mind. I'm not sure what things you would like to do with Mr. right , but I think if he likes to do things that are more fun to do if he is not alone like; the theater , music festivals, day trips,...... by the way have you considered a gay guy for dates and a straight guy for the dinner, movie and booty call?
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Old 04-27-2010, 02:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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exactly what I thought ......her attitude is why she is only a bj in a parking lot of a bar.........not good for long term anything
I don't go to bars, as was already stated. Nice try though!
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