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I am not endorsing this at all. I am just pointing out the actual drives involved.
Really. An anonymous letter to a teen site where the girl states as one primary dating characteristic that he looks young? Hardly an endorsement for attraction to older men.
And the truth shall set you free. This is exactly why feminists HATE men dating younger women. Competition. This is where all the feminist shaming tactics come from and in large part is the cause of this growing perception that older men with younger women is somehow wrong. It's actually just sour grapes.
Those grapes make good wine. My guy is 33. His ex-gf is 7 years younger. After they broke up, when he was 29, he went for me. Why? Well, for one thing, she was one of the ones who didn't grow up between the ages of 18 and 21, and he got sick of dealing with the drama and immature behavior. He also got sick of her mooching off him and sitting around the house--HIS house--while he worked overtime. She couldn't even keep the place clean in return for the free room and board.
So, whoop, there goes the pendulum in the other direction, toward responsibility, no drama, head on straight, tell it like it is, it is what it is, and I'll pay my own way in my own space, thanks much. If he changes his mind and wants kids some day, well, nothing I can do about that, but it has been three years and so far, so good.
And the truth shall set you free. This is exactly why feminists HATE men dating younger women. Competition. This is where all the feminist shaming tactics come from and in large part is the cause of this growing perception that older men with younger women is somehow wrong. It's actually just sour grapes.
My SO dated a woman 9 years younger than him before he meet me. One of many reasons he liked me was because I didn't want kids and neither did he. I am 9 years his senior.
See, another example of how wrong you tend to be in your assumptions.
I am an feminist and I don't see younger women as competition whatsoever and I would hazard a guess that almost all of the women who post here on this forum don't either.
Its strange how its perfectly fine for a older man to date or sex a young woman but when a older woman wants to date or sex a young guy shes called a cougar. Go figure.
Hi eagle7,
Its strange because they make no offspring. A 45 year old woman with a 30 year old man passes 0 genetic or cultural trends. Reverse that and you could fill up a minivan. Rinse, repeat generation after generation.
That's the answer. This thread reminds me as much as some of those idiotic male projections where they ask if women like porn as much as they do. My answer is "no you fool".
Sex is not natures gift of recreation. The reason why we have sex is because we are being hunted, and we need to biologically move, fast. That is what gave rise to the angiosperms with flowering sexual displays.
Really. An anonymous letter to a teen site where the girl states as one primary dating characteristic that he looks young? Hardly an endorsement for attraction to older men.
Says someone who backs up his comment with nothing.
lol...that's right. Can't fight the stigma....as some guys have said over and over....just because it's insulting, doesn't mean it's not true.
You just proved the whole point. Just cuz its insulting doesnt mean its not true. Thank you for being so honest. Finally. Now tell some of the women on here the same thing.
Those grapes make good wine. My guy is 33. His ex-gf is 7 years younger. After they broke up, when he was 29, he went for me. Why? Well, for one thing, she was one of the ones who didn't grow up between the ages of 18 and 21, and he got sick of dealing with the drama and immature behavior. He also got sick of her mooching off him and sitting around the house--HIS house--while he worked overtime. She couldn't even keep the place clean in return for the free room and board.
So, whoop, there goes the pendulum in the other direction, toward responsibility, no drama, head on straight, tell it like it is, it is what it is, and I'll pay my own way in my own space, thanks much. If he changes his mind and wants kids some day, well, nothing I can do about that, but it has been three years and so far, so good.
Hi Avienne,
As I have alluded to elsewhere, a recent trend in fat has allowed older women to display more signs of attraction than many younger women. Older women who are in shape, don't dress in sweats etc. certainly can out compete younger women like never before. Also, as you say, some men do not like to pay the price of drama. Lots of this stuff is rather new.
You just proved the whole point. Just cuz its insulting doesnt mean its not true. Thank you for being so honest. Finally. Now tell some of the women on here the same thing.
Why thank you! You have done the same...let'spread the news.
Women like younger men for sex....Men like younger women for sex.
Its not a surprise since many women accuse men of chasing young women for their egos. That's a female projection. Men are certainly after sex.
Well what do you think these "Cougars" are doing with MEN....sitting around with their paws crossed or gettin' sexed up because we all know a woman is in her sexual prime at that age!
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Can't fight the stigma....as some guys have said over and over....just because it's insulting, doesn't mean it's not true. 
