What does marraige mean you? (experiences, looking, relations, cousin)
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Yeah, I've thought that too. Then again, I'm not sure that means anything. Couples always had drifting issues, divorce just wasn't widely accepted until the 1900s or so. At least that's how it was in Asian society (my parents and grandparents were immigrants) but I was born and raised here and I've studied American history. It doesn't seem that divorce was popular until a certain amount of time. Whenever something went bad, they would be dignified and stop living together but never actually divorce or else find some alternative in religion or school.
Nowadays, no one really does that. We just sign the papers.
Thing is, is it should have been more accepted to the married people who were physically beaten or emotionally beaten. If no other kind of divorce was accepted, it would have been better.
I think a lot of marriaged are from people who rush into it. Either from getting the woman pregnant, lack of money, or just being blind and not spending enough time together. After that newly wed feelings pass, all of a sudden it becomes work to maintiain the relationship, and the don't want to put in the work to keep it going.
That's why, if I ever have another relationship, it's going to be a long process before I know she's the person I want to spend my life with. I'm not marrying more than once.
Thing is, is it should have been more accepted to the married people who were physically beaten or emotionally beaten. If no other kind of divorce was accepted, it would have been better.
I think a lot of marriaged are from people who rush into it. Either from getting the woman pregnant, lack of money, or just being blind and not spending enough time together. After that newly wed feelings pass, all of a sudden it becomes work to maintiain the relationship, and the don't want to put in the work to keep it going.
That's why, if I ever have another relationship, it's going to be a long process before I know she's the person I want to spend my life with. I'm not marrying more than once.
Marry someone that will put in work and be sure that you will do the same.
It wasn't before I was and now I am it's one of the most important things in my life. That's MY marriage though, not the idea of marriage, if my marriage ended tomorrow I doubt I'd ever marry again. I don't see marriage as being important to leading a happy life.
Thing is, is it should have been more accepted to the married people who were physically beaten or emotionally beaten. If no other kind of divorce was accepted, it would have been better.
I think a lot of marriaged are from people who rush into it. Either from getting the woman pregnant, lack of money, or just being blind and not spending enough time together. After that newly wed feelings pass, all of a sudden it becomes work to maintiain the relationship, and the don't want to put in the work to keep it going.
That's why, if I ever have another relationship, it's going to be a long process before I know she's the person I want to spend my life with. I'm not marrying more than once.
Sometimes even when they've known each other for a long time, people continue to change for the worse. I don't know why that is. Yes, I've read many stories online of the happy teens who stumbled upon each other in HS and then just tied the knot or the "We've known each other since we were kids and are 60s still going strong", but it doesn't seem to be common in contrast to all of those cases you mentioned.
I agree with that. My cousin actually took some fourteen years before he tied the knot. He found his girl in HS and they refused to go until they were in their early thirties and had both earned MAs. I don't want to be one of those people who marries again and again. If it ends, that's it!
Keep looking There is plenty of hay in the haystack, but the needle is still there.
yeah it's another "hope" comment. Reality has taught me that there really isn't a whole lot of "hay", just a bunch of women looking for perfection, and becoming more and more bittter the longer they go without finding mr. perfection.
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