Is it ok to wish someone to have a downfall?

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Nite Ryder

And you call yourself "Sunflower" why not change your name to "Wicked Witch" before you start this endeavor?
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"Sunflower" means pride and false riches

PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL - "If you allow yourself to become full of pride, you will find yourself humiliated. Be modest. The proverb comes from the Old Testament." From "Random House Dictionary of Popular Proverbs and Sayings" by Gregory Y. Titelman (Random House, New York, 1996).

[FrmlyBklyn]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

I won't forget the day he made me sad. Yes I know it might sound stupid because it's online but we were friends once.
It was only a short time before he started attacking me with every possible word for no reason. I will not forget that. He tried fixing it after recently (after 1 year of constant online harassment) but I didn't accept his apology. Will not... I don't forget and forgive easily, not like before in my previous years.

Life is too short, every moment on earth is precious...do you really want to use up your precious time on this guy? Haven't you wasted enough of your time with him? Move on...enjoy your life, and maybe karma will pay him a visit one day.

[WFW&P]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

The issue is sometimes there is no ''rest in peace'' for me till I get back at that person.
The latest example would be my boyfriend. He didn't once called on my birthday. A week later afterwards, it was a ''break-up'' call but asked me back the next month. However, it would be 1 year and 8 months later when it was then my turn doing the break up on Christmas. I made him work to get me back.... we don't really like asking men back (in my idea, they have to ask us back whether they're the dumper or dumpee).

Anyways... I felt terrible afterwards but it's like sometimes the best way to get it out of you is to get back at that person.

The way to get "back" at the person is to let them know immediately how you feel about what they have done to you. Its borderline maniacal to wait "for your turn" for the payback. This is not healthy and these are situations where you choose your battles; boyfriend dumps you, tell him how you feel & move on. You detest someone online; not so important. I truly doubt if ever anything did bad happen to the guy online that he would wonder if someone had wished it upon him and open an investigation. Besides what would you do if you found out something bad did happen? Loved one gets killed; would you rub it in? Tell him he deserved it? Tell him he got his?