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Originally Posted by KMG1
The guy that I'm dating has introduced me to his family (they loved me too). He is also pretty affectionate around his family and friends but my friends say that that doesn't hold much weight these days, men will introduce anyone to his family, that it's just game and to keep my eyes open. He also invited me to another family event but I wasn't able to make it. I truly wonder what does this all mean.
I have asked him how he felt about me and he said that he is interested in me and he wants to see how far this may go, but for some reason I find it hard to believe. Maybe it's from the past failed dating scenarios/relationships, maybe it's fear. I don't know.
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ah relax theres nothing to worry about
.. how long have u been in relation with this guy ?
.. how did he react when u didnt go to another family event of his ?
.. so u say he's interested in you and that he wants to see how far this may go
..okay then whats the rush ?
.. he needs time to know you ..so do you ..IMO i dont see much of a problem here
..though you're feeling a bit sceptical, its always better not to think deep and lose good hope ..however heres the plan ..first of all there are some questions you gotta ask yourself ..more like a self assesment .. you gotta be positive you know, secondly think of what you're doing on your part to fully commit to this relationship .. also what good/bad qualities do u think this guy has in comparison to yourself .. as a person ofcourse .. obviously every individual is different .. anyways what have u learnt from your past relationships ?
.. if those relationships failed, analyze why? and what you could've done to avoid failure .. what caught your interest in those guys you've dated before ..at this point dont compare him to them
.. make a list and give points to each .. im not telling you to play a game here ..its only a way to get that fear of dating a wrong person outta your system .. bottom line what scares you to date? other than failed past relationships/scenarios ..once u get the answer to all these questions you'll know that you were confused
nothing but dazed and confuuuuuuused
.. so to clear this confusion u gotta laugh out loud
and move on with this guy ..enjoy his company .. be happy and party
.. oh did you introduce him to your family/friends ?
..do it .. ask them what they think of him ..just ask their opinion ..not a judgement ..eventually after collecting some important facts about him through your sources ..you can decide whether to continue or back out .. dont spy on him or ask his rivals ..they can add fuel to the fire ..ahem sorry for the do's and don'ts
after all you asked for it
..but hey many people have different opinions ..ultimately its upto you ..either you conquer your fear or lose a potential mate ..theres no bargain in this business
.. its a matter of heart ..either you take it or break it ! well thats all i have for now .. untill then take care and good luck
..this is Norm24x7 signing off ! au revoir
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don't get annoyed ..ah no more do's and don'ts*