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Old 05-05-2010, 06:18 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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I just dont get why someone who just turned 20 would even consider someone old enough to be her father.
I mean seriously, even if it does last, he's gonna need Viagra and Depends before she's 40.
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Old 05-05-2010, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I just dont get why someone who just turned 20 would even consider someone old enough to be her father.
I mean seriously, even if it does last, he's gonna need Viagra and Depends before she's 40.
A girl that age going after some guy in his 40's has "daddy issues" 99.9% of the time.

And any guy that old who gets involved with a girl that young has only 2 things on his mind - warding off his fear of aging and sex.

Both are just using each other to satisfy sad needs.
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Old 05-05-2010, 07:21 PM
 
Location: North America
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A girl that age going after some guy in his 40's has "daddy issues" 99.9% of the time.

And any guy that old who gets involved with a girl that young has only 2 things on his mind - warding off his fear of aging and sex.

Both are just using each other to satisfy sad needs.
Sounds like a perfect match to me
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:02 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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Ya know what my friends? It's none of our damn business. Those who said negative things are judging. It may be hard to do but we should never judge those who we never walked in their shoes.

Isn't that what we preach about race, religion, political views............ect!!!
Why are we judging age difference?
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Your thoughts about this?
If it works for them then I wish them well.
They are both legal so I see no issue with it.
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Ya know what my friends? It's none of our damn business. Those who said negative things are judging. It may be hard to do but we should never judge those who we never walked in their shoes.

Isn't that what we preach about race, religion, political views............ect!!!
Why are we judging age difference?
Because for some people, anything outside of certain 'norms' or anything that they have seen issues with obviously cannot work well for anyone else.
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:17 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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It's ok for creative stress relief but defintely dating
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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A 20 years old woman dating a 42 years old man? Your thoughts about this...
As a man in his 40's, I don't see what the problem is. I'd do the same given the opportunity. More power to them!

She probably likes him for his maturity, experience, and maturity; he probably likes her for her vivaciousness, excitement. and the promise of youth. Nothing says it has to last forever -- let 'em enjoy one another as long as it lasts. And I sure do hope the sex is great for both of 'em!

Too damn many judgmental prudes in this world, if you ask me.
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:51 PM
 
Location: North America
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Plenty of examples of age differences like that where the relationship lasted 10, 20, 30 even 40+ years.
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Old 05-05-2010, 08:51 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Your thoughts about this?
I'm all for women dating older men but here, the age difference is really large. I doubt anything serious will come out of this relationship, but if it does, she will be in her sexual prime at 40, while he'd be popping viagra and still incapable to keep up.
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