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-Wears heels-sorry ladies, I equate wearing heels as being ho'ish. Who are you trying to impress? -Is too strong for her own good -Has a child or two -goes to clubs -doesn't like old-school soul/R&B -has tattoos -is not into volunteering/giving back to the community -did not grow up in the inner-city, therefore has no idea about the 'hood -listens to rap. I just don't find females who listen to rap to be very ladylike. -asks me what I do for a living, when will lead into how much money I make a year, month, bi-weekly or weekly. -Uses ghetto vernacular such as "girl" "chile" "ace boon coon" -has more guy friends than girl friends-I understand women can be low-down heifers but surely you can find some decent female friends to hang with. You can kick it with the fellas but also learn how to be with a select few women that you have gotten to know over time. -Opinionated-I'm opinionated to a large degree but I also know when to remain silent. You can't always say what you feel because you'll end up looking like a clown -Can't cook-If you can't cook, I'm not checking for you. PERIOD.
Umm---ace boon coon? Please tell me people don't still say that. II must admit that is one of my " rub me wrongs," but I have dated people who used old slang, but the key word is dated,
You are so funny. I am sure a good number of women could fall in one of the three categories (well maybe not the third one). But I heard a guy once on Jerry Springer who had just found out his gf was actually a guy and he was screaming "I don't even know who you is" and Jerry kept saying "are" but the bloke didn't take notice.
This thread is cracking me up. I have a male friend who always says leaves the s off of friends when he is speaking. Its as if the s gets lost. He also says obsessively, " I got a chance to do this or I got a chance to do that." It could be going to the store and he'll say, I gotta chance to go to the store. In my head I am screaming!! Then I remember and snap back, he is only a friend & really through association.
Oh, I thought of an odd thing I had when I was young, BUT I have out grown it with age. I COULD NOT STAND IT IF A GUY CROSSED HIS LEGS. That was an immediate 911 -- I'M OUT! I just couldn't do it. Same for a man with his hands on his hips. Like another old Seinfiel episode, once they did that I didn't hear anything else they said. It was like all I could hear was crossed legs, crossed legs, crossed legs, hands on hips, hands on hips, hands on hips.
I was having a discussion with some friends today about this. Of course, there are many things that raise a red flag in the majority of people's minds when it comes to dating; but there are other things that are based on our own individual dislikes. So, give a reason you'd turn somebody down that might seem unusual to others.
I personally don't like dating women who like mayonnaise. I dislike everything about it. The look, the smell, the taste, everything. To many, this would seem rather petty, but it's something I can't ignore. Just thinking about being with (or even worse, kissing) someone who loves mayonnaise is enough to make my stomach turn.
Ok, your turn.
Hilarious Haaziq! I also loathe mayonnaise. I find that sour cream is a worse offender though.
Though I'm married, if I were single I wouldn't date a man who listened to country music. Or rap. Or didn't enjoy reading.
I never dated religious men, either. Big turn-off to me.
I had a friend who stopped dating a girl because he thought her earlobes were too big.
How about someone who is a bad driver? (agressive, speeder, etc) I still remember a date I had where we went to a baseball game. The drive there consisted of him going fast and weaving in and out of traffic. The *red flag* was when I said something about it, he continued to drive the same way. END of that brief relationship, thank you very much.
Oooh -- don't know if this has been mentioned yet... but I wouldn't date anyone with those revolting tribal-earlobe-hoop thingies in their ears. I don't care if the girl is a perfect 10 everywhere else, those will put her right back down to 1 in my book.
I don´t know how I ended up here but from what I´ve read so far there is a great deal of prejudice in this thread. REMEMBER:
Attraction isn’t a logical process.
Attraction isn’t decided.
Attraction isn’t a choice.
Conclusion: If you have the Attraction going on, **** the rest.
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