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Old 05-09-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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I agree fully. I cant wait for the day when i become less concerned about her actions and more concerned about my own. Its gonna take a while to get there, but i got nothing but time.

Go out and get laid.
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Old 05-09-2010, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Columbus, Indiana
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Dickums, you sound like a great guy, you deserve much better!
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Old 05-09-2010, 08:44 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Yeesh, I read the first post and saw problems on both sides. As I read on, I still see the same issues with you, but good lord, that girl sounds like a complete ass.

It's going to be hard while you're trying to get over it, but think about how she is behaving for all the world to see, at your expense. Add to this the fact that she is a mother, for crying out loud. You're not missing out on anything.

As for what I see on your end, I think you should consider staying away from women with children for a while. I understand that she was selfish, however, resenting that she shopped for the kids and not you, or shopped months ahead of time for the kids and not you, is not a line of thinking I'd be comfortable with. What she does for her kids is not the problem. What she is not doing for you, is. YOU need to learn to separate the two.
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Old 05-09-2010, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Get away from her, and stay away from her. You don't need her bull****.
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Old 05-25-2010, 04:09 PM
 
Location: San Francisco Bay Area
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All I have to say is good luck with that...

Ok, that's not all I have to say. It sounds like she's taking you for granted, which she may grow out of, or she may just be a narc. If it bothers you now, and the relationship is only a year old, I don't think it will get any better unless you say something and get her to realize how her behaviour makes you feel. And even then, it may not change.
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Old 05-25-2010, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Am i dreaming or am i in a crappy relationship??
I'm sorry to say it but I do think you're in a crappy relationship. If it were me I don't think I could continue on with it. Good luck to you.
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Old 05-25-2010, 08:43 PM
 
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She is looking for a meal ticket, and someone to raise her kids, nothing more.If you can live with that, you found the perfect mate.
If you want a sharing wife, ditch this one and don't make the mistake of marring her.
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