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Old 05-11-2010, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Crossville, TN
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[quote=LaoTzuMindFu;14127338]Nothing "tasteless" about it. Lets not bury our heads in the sand and/or pretend not to notice the giant pink elephant in the room. Isnt it a fact that as people age, we lose muscle tone and as such, saggyness occurs? This is someone that we all face, but more often than not, its causes a problem in a (non married) relationship where the woman is the older and the guy is younger.[/quote]


And vice versa unless the man is a bizillionaire.
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Old 05-11-2010, 09:40 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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And vice versa unless the man is a bizillionaire.
So true. But, are you saying that women would overlook the saggyness and problems of men's aging if she gets money out of the deal? Sounds kinda "street walkerish" to me if you know what I mean.
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Old 05-11-2010, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Crossville, TN
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So true. But, are you saying that women would overlook the saggyness and problems of men's aging if she gets money out of the deal? Sounds kinda "street walkerish" to me if you know what I mean.

I personally would not, but yes there are many a young "lady" who would sleep with an undesirable man if he is rich.
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Old 05-11-2010, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Crossville, TN
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Of couse I'm not so young anymore, but still would not have done it when I was younger.
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Old 05-11-2010, 09:57 AM
 
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I agree. But, I dont think that this thread is spiraling into that. The OP sounds young and inexperienced in life. I just wanted to point out the reality (which everyone in the world knows) that as the womans sex drive may in fact increase with age, HIS sex drive may decrease as he may lose interest/attraction to her as her body ages and becomes flabby, saggy, wrinkly, etc. which is normal as people age.

He needs to be prepared for reality and the challenges he may have to face in his relationship with this older woman.
Ok...this might sound like I'm picking on you...but from reading your many posts...it seems like you can't possibly enjoy sex unless you have a goddess beneath you. Do you honestly think a sagging body part interefers with the STAMINA to have a good roll in the sack? My husband is approaching 52 and probably has more stamina than guys 1/2 his age. Sex is an athletic activity? We're not running laps here....You might work out 7 days a week but how fast does your tongue move? I might not work out...but does that say anything about my 'oral' talents??? Just cause his balls are a little lower doesn't mean they don't work just fine! He's loved me skinny and gorgeous and still makes me feel no less a woman now that I'm 50 and not too skinny with 'shifting' parts...and he's still ATTRACTED to me. You have a warped sense of what attraction is all about. After 30 years....a good roll in the sack is about LOVE....not looks. I feel sorry for you.

Sorry for the 'visual' folks...it was the only way I felt I could get my point across!
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Old 05-11-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Ok...this might sound like I'm picking on you...but from reading your many posts...it seems like you can't possibly enjoy sex unless you have a goddess beneath you. Do you honestly think a sagging body part interefers with the STAMINA to have a good roll in the sack? My husband is approaching 52 and probably has more stamina than guys 1/2 his age. Sex is an athletic activity? We're not running laps here....You might work out 7 days a week but how fast does your tongue move? I might not work out...but does that say anything about my 'oral' talents??? Just cause his balls are a little lower doesn't mean they don't work just fine! He's loved me skinny and gorgeous and still makes me feel no less a woman now that I'm 50 and not too skinny with 'shifting' parts...and he's still ATTRACTED to me. You have a warped sense of what attraction is all about. After 30 years....a good roll in the sack is about LOVE....not looks. I feel sorry for you.

Sorry for the 'visual' folks...it was the only way I felt I could get my point across!
Fantastic post young lady!!!!!!!! I couldnt have said it better myself!
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Old 05-11-2010, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Cali
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48 here, my sex drive is still the same as when I was 17!
And in response to a certain poster who made derogatory remarks about sagging body parts.....shame on you! There are quite a few of us out here that are in very good shape for our ages.
A strong sex drive keeps you in good shape too! I so DESPISE the BS double standard that says a woman that is too much into sex is a nympho or ****. She's just healthy as far as I'm concerned!:-)
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Old 05-11-2010, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Here is a great example. I would take kshe95girl any day over a young girl. But then again I've always had a thang for those Missouri girls!
You just made my day, thank you!
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Old 05-11-2010, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Nothing "tasteless" about it.
Ummmmm.......yeah, right.
You offended a whole bunch of ladies, including myself.
Self-justify much?
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Old 05-11-2010, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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You just made my day, thank you!
Hey! I know a hot little # when I see one! And she damn sure doesnt have to be in her 20's!
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