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Standard women have no league of their own, unless they're high profile hookers or bonafide gold diggers.
I am a firm believer that every man has a shot when it comes to women who seem unattainable. It is up to the man to start off the process of attainability.
That might be the case where men with good jobs are few and far between but nowhere else.
Of course, this is where women complain the most. Most of the hard luck stories posted here by women are from these places. Good looking guys without a job are a major "problem" for women.
One of the reasons that people are unhappy in relationships or can't even get into one is the fact that they are seeking out someone who isn't going to have the slightest interest in them. I've known quite a few guys who were just average looking at best who were only interested in women who looked like models. The result is that they're constantly being rejected.
What's even worse is having someone after you who you have no interest in. Its difficult to let them down without getting the entire female community against you.
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Originally Posted by MontanaGuy
I also notice on profiles on singles sites that the descriptions that women use to describe the kind of man they're looking for are so similar it almost sounds like they're all looking for the same guy. They're also trying to fine someone who's in a league that may be higher than their own and will probably remain single because they're not being realistic about who would be attracted to them.
The difference is that women have the "tools" to at least appear to be in this game. Most men have little control or ability to influence success, despite the fact that women regularly complain of not being approached. They aren't interested in being approached by "most" men.
Has anything happened in your life that has made you less confident? You don't have to say here, but why do you think you're of lesser worth/standing? Who even defines worth or value? And who is to say that you are of lesser value than anybody else?
I have a tip for you. When you're next at work, or in any public place, smile and say hello to people. Self-talk to yourself.
That might be the case where men with good jobs are few and far between but nowhere else.
Of course, this is where women complain the most. Most of the hard luck stories posted here by women are from these places. Good looking guys without a job are a major "problem" for women.
See the thing is you are making it your concern. This is a clear case of why so called "bad boys" are percieved as bieng more successful wiyh women, because we don't care about all that BS. If you are married, what did you do, settle for whoever was "in your league"? Fell sorry for ya man.
First thing you need to do is understand there is no such thing as "leagues". In other words there is no spoon.
Second, the quality level of women you're capable of getting is determined by nothing more than your level of Game, or ability to communicate with women. The good news is that this is a learnable skill.
Has anything happened in your life that has made you less confident? You don't have to say here, but why do you think you're of lesser worth/standing? Who even defines worth or value? And who is to say that you are of lesser value than anybody else?
I have a tip for you. When you're next at work, or in any public place, smile and say hello to people. Self-talk to yourself.
I don't really think of it as a lesser value think, it' sjust that I have no game. So It hink that women would give me much less of a chance than a guy who has game.
When I mean no game, I really mean, no game..
So it's not that I'm a persona of less value, I just have, little to no game.
First off, take stock of your good qualities and if you are a truly nice, good, kind, considerate, fabulous guy then you should think to yourself any woman would be happy to be with you because you treat people with respect.
That in a nutshell, describes the single, never married men I know.
Only a$$holes are successful at butting to the front of the line around here.
Of course, women reconsider once they have been divorced and are in their forties. Doesn't do much for the guy who wants a family so he can pass along these traits.
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