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Okay girl, I am not sure what to tell you but I can tell you something...
My husband ( soon to be ex ) is also a private person. So private that he has no pictures of me, or us on his Facebook and refused to add me to his Facebook. His excuse? We live together, so why should I add you..?
Someone had been cheating and we're now getting divorced. That was my personal experience.
I have no idea why your significant other is doing what he's doing...just keep in mind he is a guy and men see things differently.
I agree. Men do look at things differently than women. And I dont think cheating or lack of love is the problem. I think I just over reacted got worried over nothing...I just need to relax. Thanks!
I agree. Men do look at things differently than women. And I dont think cheating or lack of love is the problem. I think I just over reacted got worried over nothing...I just need to relax. Thanks!
Good for you - I think you came to the right decision.
It amazes me that some people posted such harmful comments toward the OP based on a question regarding facebook, with no knowledge of any other aspect of her relationship, but the ridiculous idea that assumptions are as good as facts. Anything that can be done to start an argument, I suppose
OP, I'm glad that you came to a decision Good luck with everything.
Okay girl, I am not sure what to tell you but I can tell you something...
My husband ( soon to be ex ) is also a private person. So private that he has no pictures of me, or us on his Facebook and refused to add me to his Facebook. His excuse? We live together, so why should I add you..?
Someone had been cheating and we're now getting divorced. That was my personal experience.
I have no idea why your significant other is doing what he's doing...just keep in mind he is a guy and men see things differently.
Now see thats where I would differ. I am very private and would not put up my pic or my wife's pic on facebook. I was always like that. But if I had a facebook account, I most certainly would put on there "Happily Married" and add my wife on there. Just because someone is private does not mean they are hiding something. But yes, the refusal to add or not allow the other to see what you write is certainly a sign.
Are you in his phone contacts? Do you figure prominently in his "recent calls"? I'd say that's a little more important than whether he's printed or posted any photos of you.
Personally, while people at work have SEEN my ex-girlfriend, I never introduced them. I never told them her name, and I didn't mention their names until AFTER we'd split up. There was no "need to know".
Some people are comfortable with not looking at that or knowing who the other person is communicating with. And thats fine. Some people are just that comfortable, or some people just dont care.... to each his own. But to refusal... I can understand why "some" people might be bothered by that.
I dont even go to his page, if anything... he's always checking out mine... and I dont care. I just went about asking a question the wrong way... and then let some insecurities build up in my head and snowball over nothing.... much like my very first thread here. LOL
Either way, its no reason to question or ruin a relationship. Sometimes human beings do dumb things. End of story.
Thank you to all those who didn't judge me or berate me.
^I didn't mean to imply that you should "snoop" to check. I'm sorry if it came across that way.
I'm just saying that there are other things that say more than whether or not he has a photo. They are on his phone IF he wants to show anyone...for me, other people don't need to see my girlfriend. That's opening up the "competition", and I'm not for that.
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It amazes me that some people posted such harmful comments toward the OP based on a question regarding facebook, with no knowledge of any other aspect of her relationship, but the ridiculous idea that assumptions are as good as facts. Anything that can be done to start an argument, I suppose 
Good luck with everything.
