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I do understand his interest in sex, but I feel disrespected when he touches me so often. It would be nice to be able to give him a kiss or hug without my boobs or butt being given so much attention
mchelle - I try not to type my personal life across the internet - but I am in your camp with the 'I hate to be groped' everytime I get within arms reach of my man.....it puts a sour taste in my mouth and sets the tone for how "I" react to any continued attempts at intimacy......it's ME....can't change it - have honestly tried - doesn't work....I DETEST being groped.
My husband still tries it as often as he can get away with it (the groping), but he knows full well what it does to my attitude.
For me - constant groping of boobs, butts, arms, legs, necks, etc., is childish, schoolboy like, and irritates the crap outta me....if that makes me weird - then I am definitely weird and in touch with it too!
Good luck mchelle - maybe you could ask your boyfriend to stop the groping....and see if that doesn't improve your overall attitude about intimacy with him?.....for me - it's that simple.
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mchelle - I try not to type my personal life across the internet - but I am in your camp with the 'I hate to be groped' everytime I get within arms reach of my man.....it puts a sour taste in my mouth and sets the tone for how "I" react to any continued attempts at intimacy......it's ME....can't change it - have honestly tried - doesn't work....I DETEST being groped.
My husband still tries it as often as he can get away with it (the groping), but he knows full well what it does to my attitude.
For me - constant groping of boobs, butts, arms, legs, necks, etc., is childish, schoolboy like, and irritates the crap outta me....if that makes me weird - then I am definitely weird and in touch with it too!
Good luck mchelle - maybe you could ask your boyfriend to stop the groping....and see if that doesn't improve your overall attitude about intimacy with him?.....for me - it's that simple.
"as often as he can get away with" ???
Wow you speak of your husband as if he were a stranger on the subway.
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You guys - this is why I don't post about my personal business....I offered support to this gal - and now "I" am being quizzed and judged.....I'm out - the OP can drop me a PM.....not every woman likes to be manhandled everytime she walks by - it really is that simple. And I'm not speaking for every woman.
Yep - know where you are completely We redid our master bathroom shower last year - HE picked clear glass doors......and wonders why I want to lock the door when I shower I also know many women who dress in their closet for this reason as well....you most certainly are NOT insane and you are not alone. Talk to him - it might help things on your end! He does sound like a very normal healthy male.....but you sound very normal too!!!!
So, you are saying the only one here who is not normal is you? What's the first clue? Forgive me for assuming that locking the bathroom door and dressing in the closet is not normal. You would be out on your ear so quickly you wouldn't know what happened. Gee, the more I read some of these posts the more I shake my head in wonderment. I feel so lucky I didn't run into weirdo's when I was younger...
"as often as he can get away with" ???
Wow you speak of your husband as if he were a stranger on the subway.
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All women are like her though. Women hate sex. Women hate intimacy. Women hate being touched. Women are disgusted by those things, it's a shame offcourse but thats just the way it is.
If I get a girlfriend I won't touch her... ever, it seems I am the only guy that understands this.
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and in touch with it too!
I also know many women who dress in their closet for this reason as well....you most certainly are NOT insane and you are not alone. Talk to him - it might help things on your end! He does sound like a very normal healthy male.....but you sound very normal too!!!!
