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At 28, desirable men with their own houses and apartments are still chasing you. Don't waste your time on unpaid social work. Worse yet, I don't think he's telling you the whole truth about his ex situation. If he's trying to date you and you can't come over to his place because of another woman, that is not a good sign. If the woman living there was only on roomate status, he would have no problem bringing you over. He's undateable until he gets these entanglements under control and he gets his own place. So he's a very nice person. Great. Put him in the Friend Bin.
agree with the above. You're 28!! He's 45!! Find someone you have things in common with, INCLUDING place in life! You can't have that much in common, and if you really think you do, the stars in your eyes are likely clouding your view of what you two have.
And by the way just so we can nip this in the bud once and for all...
not that Kim Kardashian is the end all be all of sizing, but she is a size 4...and she has 40 inch hips. My hips are 37...this is how I am a 0-2. I also have a smaller waist than her.
Just b/c you don't think things can be possible, doesn't mean they aren't. Everyone is built differently.
Now that I've had a chance to browse around this website, all I can say is WOW I can't believe a grown woman would actually be interested in this. Lying about clothing sizes, speculating that a given celebrity gained five pounds, close-ups of body flaws...
Now I understand why the default view so many people have of me is "shallow" and "vain" because I have remained fit through the years.
I feel very bad for you, Jdawg, that you would spend your free time on a site like this. Trust me, it is screwing with your head. Do yourself a favor and find more positive websites to follow, perhaps something that is more geared towards your mind and not your body.
Hi all- I'm a 28 year old, single gal. Recently an older man, 45 years old, has taken interest in me. I do like him and it isn't really the age that is the factor...it's more his living situation and the fact that he has A LOT of baggage.
He is divorced with a 10 year old son. He wasn't married to his ex-wife very long. He got her pregnant and she said if he didn't marry she would have an abortion. Shortly after the kid was born, they filed for divorce. This was about 10 years ago. In between he has had some relationships. His last relationship ended approx. around new years time. She had 2 kids (not with him) and she and the kids were living with him...and still are! Even though he is not with this ex, I, as someone who he is trying to court...can't even fathom this situation. He told me I cannot come over his place b/c his ex is living there and she would be furious. I don't understand why he can't just get the balls and kick her out...or speak up to to her and say no and invite me over.
I don't want to have to inconvenience anything to have a relationship with him...just to keep HER happy. I want to be able to have a boyfriend and visit him freely and not have to worry about an ex or her kids or any other drama. Not only that, but I googled him and I found out that they were engaged- NOT just boyf/girlf...but he hasn't admitted it to me.
So I guess I'm a little stuck. He is a very nice guy, so that's the part that is telling me it's worth it...but the baggage is just too much for me to handle. Plus, I feel if he indeed WAS engaged to this woman, then he isn't being honest with me.
Thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks
dude, are you even sure this "NICE GUY" got a divorce?
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Concisely stated.
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