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Old 05-16-2010, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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Originally Posted by TempesT68 View Post
Are you good looking? if so, he's interested. No man on the face of the planet is going to turn down no strings attached sex from a good looking girl
I agree, probably because you are right. How ridicules of a woman to worry if a guy would be interested in her. All she has to do is show some cleavage, lock eyes for a moment and flip her hair back. No more words need be spoken. The connection is made. OP: I would bet the whole farm he don't give a flying fart which political team you are on. Why did you even bring that up?

 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:10 AM
 
Location: South FL
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OK this is the situation. I got a thing for this guy thats my boss.
Im not gonna be working with him for long....and I'm not looking for anything serious...
He's actually not my type per se, Im a Democrat hes Republican, he's kind of a goody goody, Im not...but over the past couple weeks I find myself increasingly attracted to him. I have the feeling he's at least somewhat attracted to me too, by the things he does, but somehow I don't see him hitting on me.
I really have to stop myself from saying anything to him on the chance that I am wrong and don't want to look stupid.... but I keep having these fantasies lol.
I need someone to tell me to not go there before I do something I may regret!!
Go for it if you wanna get fired or be known as an office tramp.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:15 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Go for it if you wanna get fired or be known as an office tramp.
Thank you, finally a voice of reason on this thread.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:30 AM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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Go for it, but only when you're no longer working together. If he turns you down, that could make for a very awkward situation at the office. However, if you're never going to see him again, no harm done.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:32 AM
 
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Wait how is he too goody goody?

If my employee wanted to sleep with me I'd feel confused. He's a 38 year old married man.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:33 AM
 
Location: South FL
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Wait how is he too goody goody?

If my employee wanted to sleep with me I'd feel confused. He's a 38 year old married man.
Which is pretty much your regular state of mind.

Kidding, sunshine.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:43 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Folks, we can not and should not fulfill every fantasy which goes on in our heads. Most are best left right there in your mind. Have fun thinking about it before you go to sleep at night, use it when you next are having a little bit of Me Time... and that's it.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:49 AM
 
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Originally Posted by phoenixscorpiogirl View Post
OK this is the situation. I got a thing for this guy thats my boss.
Im not gonna be working with him for long....and I'm not looking for anything serious...
He's actually not my type per se, Im a Democrat hes Republican, he's kind of a goody goody, Im not...but over the past couple weeks I find myself increasingly attracted to him. I have the feeling he's at least somewhat attracted to me too, by the things he does, but somehow I don't see him hitting on me.
I really have to stop myself from saying anything to him on the chance that I am wrong and don't want to look stupid.... but I keep having these fantasies lol.
I need someone to tell me to not go there before I do something I may regret!!
Oh my God. Keep your professionalism, class, and self-respect and walk away!!
 
Old 05-16-2010, 08:59 AM
 
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Originally Posted by TempesT68 View Post
Are you good looking? if so, he's interested. No man on the face of the planet is going to turn down no strings attached sex from a good looking girl
Yeah that sounds right. And if he finds out this good looking girl has slept with several other men on this planet and has infected him with an STD, I wonder what happens then. It amazes how much people can have sex with someone they haven't known for more than a week. Don't know your partner's background, family, clinical health, not even their last name. That is filthy. Your not excused because you are a man. You must not have much respect for yourself as a grown man and must be extremely desperate for that good-good if your willing to just sleep with a good looking girl because she is simply that. That's skin deep. You could be sleeping with a murderer, a psychopath, someone with HIV, that will effect you the rest of your life. I must have been born in the wrong generation because ignorance is bliss nowadays.
 
Old 05-16-2010, 09:14 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Is he married? Maybe there's a reason he's not acting interested.

I agree with Max's Mama and Onglet here.
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