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Old 05-19-2010, 05:58 AM
 
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Thanks for the advise. Next time I'm around a group of women I'm gonna do a stand-up routine about myself.

 
Old 05-19-2010, 07:42 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Oh PLEASE! Everything that happens to you has to have some deep ulterior message and everything that happens to you which others take entirely for granted is, for you, an epiphany. What happened to the date with the 40 year old or are you now considering your coworkers as potential marks?

She has a lot of health issues going on so I have no idea when we will meet or if we will meet at all.
 
Old 05-19-2010, 08:36 AM
 
Location: southwest TN
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She has a lot of health issues going on so I have no idea when we will meet or if we will meet at all.

What a surprise! So date #3 went the same way as all the dates of 2009.
 
Old 05-19-2010, 08:42 AM
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What a surprise! So date #3 went the same way as all the dates of 2009.
I don't control the medical condition of women I meet online AnniePoo
 
Old 05-19-2010, 08:59 AM
 
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So Guys who are overweight and trying to find that special girl just have the ability to POKE FUN at yourself which will have them attracted to you.
I can see that they really enjoyed the humour. Why do you think they found you attractive? Better not to overdo this as it can easily make women see you as a friend and nothing else.
 
Old 05-19-2010, 09:06 AM
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I can see that they really enjoyed the humour. Why do you think they found you attractive? Better not to overdo this as it can easily make women see you as a friend and nothing else.
Because one of them defended me and another woman mentioned my stomach again yesterday which seems to be interesting conversation to her.
 
Old 05-19-2010, 09:19 AM
 
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Because one of them defended me and another woman mentioned my stomach again yesterday which seems to be interesting conversation to her.
Trust me...

They have no interest in you. They do know, however, they can open a can of worms about your weight and you are cool with it.

It in no way indicates anything more than, "Hey lets pick on the fat guy."

Generally women want to know what's in your heart. NOT what's under your shirt.
 
Old 05-19-2010, 09:24 AM
 
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They have no interest in you. They do know, however, they can open a can of worms about your weight and you are cool with it.
Exactly. If they were interested, they wouldn't mention your stomach at all because they wouldn't want you to be self-conscious about it.

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Old 05-19-2010, 09:36 AM
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Trust me...

They have no interest in you. They do know, however, they can open a can of worms about your weight and you are cool with it.

It in no way indicates anything more than, "Hey lets pick on the fat guy."

Generally women want to know what's in your heart. NOT what's under your shirt.

It was a private convo between me and one girl and when she mentioned my stomach I maintained my-"what stomach?" attitude and she was all giggly again and she said-"you are so crazy"
 
Old 05-19-2010, 09:39 AM
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Exactly. If they were interested, they wouldn't mention your stomach at all because they wouldn't want you to be self-conscious about it.
she sees that I'm not self conscious about it which is why she is giggly. If she brings up my stomach again I will say

"I see you have been checking out my body a lot" Is there something you want to tell me?
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