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Old 06-09-2010, 09:30 AM
 
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I am a young European woman and I have gone out with many girlfriends of different ethnic backgrounds. However whenever I go out with my white girlfriends to a bar or a club, there behavior is like that they usually hook up with the first guy that flirts with them, or ask them to dance. They usually end up leaving with that same guy that night.

I am serious, and this is not to bash my white gf, but compared to my black and latina girlfriends, whenever we go out we have fun. Whenever a man approaches us we play our game, and if we like them then maybe we would give them our number, but we dont just sleep with them right away.

Ever since moving to America from Europe someone told me white woman come are easy, however white woman potentially tend to have the most racial bias. Does this stereotype about white woman holds any credibility. Is this typical for every white girl to just have a one night stand with a guy they like at a bar or a club? My intention is not to offend anyone, and of course not every young white woman does this and I am pretty sure woman from other backgrounds display this behavior. Yet is it just coincidence that so far my Caucasian female friends are just sleeping around with anyone and basically not giving men who are not white any play.

 
Old 06-09-2010, 09:46 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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I am a young European woman and I have gone out with many girlfriends of different ethnic backgrounds. However whenever I go out with my white girlfriends to a bar or a club, there behavior is like that they usually hook up with the first guy that flirts with them, or ask them to dance. They usually end up leaving with that same guy that night.

I am serious, and this is not to bash my white gf, but compared to my black and latina girlfriends, whenever we go out we have fun. Whenever a man approaches us we play our game, and if we like them then maybe we would give them our number, but we dont just sleep with them right away.

Ever since moving to America from Europe someone told me white woman come are easy, however white woman potentially tend to have the most racial bias. Does this stereotype about white woman holds any credibility. Is this typical for every white girl to just have a one night stand with a guy they like at a bar or a club? My intention is not to offend anyone, and of course not every young white woman does this and I am pretty sure woman from other backgrounds display this behavior. Yet is it just coincidence that so far my Caucasian female friends are just sleeping around with anyone and basically not giving men who are not white any play.
What country in Europe are you from Danika?
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:12 AM
 
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Yea I think you need a new group of friends.....
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:15 AM
 
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I am a young European woman and I have gone out with many girlfriends of different ethnic backgrounds. However whenever I go out with my white girlfriends to a bar or a club, there behavior is like that they usually hook up with the first guy that flirts with them, or ask them to dance. They usually end up leaving with that same guy that night.

I am serious, and this is not to bash my white gf, but compared to my black and latina girlfriends, whenever we go out we have fun. Whenever a man approaches us we play our game, and if we like them then maybe we would give them our number, but we dont just sleep with them right away.

Ever since moving to America from Europe someone told me white woman come are easy, however white woman potentially tend to have the most racial bias. Does this stereotype about white woman holds any credibility. Is this typical for every white girl to just have a one night stand with a guy they like at a bar or a club? My intention is not to offend anyone, and of course not every young white woman does this and I am pretty sure woman from other backgrounds display this behavior. Yet is it just coincidence that so far my Caucasian female friends are just sleeping around with anyone and basically not giving men who are not white any play.
Probably true. If a guy is white, a woman can see from some distance whether he has what it takes. With darker skinned men, they need to get much closer and even then, there may be problems in a dark room, discerning whether he has flaws.

As a result of this, most white guys realize that they have no chance in these meat markets and avoid them. Therefore white women know that the guys frequenting these places have been self selected for being right and there is no point in delaying. The early bird gets the worm after all!
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Somewhere in Florida
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I must be frequenting the wrong clubs!

Send me the address of these clubs so I can GPS them. I may need them in the near future!
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:41 AM
 
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I don't know. I've been to some bars and clubs and women will be all over you. Too aggressive for me, it reeks of desperation. However, I've noticed it's all races of women that are getting aggressive, not just white women. Younger, it's the under 35 crowd that is real aggressive, and the little bit older than that crowd....oh hell women have changed.
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:41 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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As an American male who has often traveled in Europe I have found just the opposite to be true. I have slept with many European women on a first date. Rarely with an American woman on a first date. Its fun to imagine what those words they are whispering into my ear mean!
 
Old 06-09-2010, 10:43 AM
 
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As an American male who has often traveled in Europe I have found just the opposite to be true. I have slept with many European women on a first date. Rarely with an American woman on a first date. Its fun to imagine what those words they are whispering into my ear mean!

they may be trying to negotiate a better price. "No no, kissing is extra."
 
Old 06-09-2010, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Why do people call themselves "European"?

For the same reason we call ourselves "American" instead of United-Statsian? After all, "American" covers Canada, the United States, Mexico, Guatemala, Belize, El Salvador, Honduras, Nicaragua, Costa Rica, Panama, Colombia, Venezuela, Ecuador, Trinidad and Tobago, Guyana, Suriname, French Guiana, Brazil, Peru, Bolivia, Paraguay, Uruguay, Chile, Argentina and the Falklands.

I'm not positive about Haiti, Cuba or the Dominican Republic, but I don't think so.
 
Old 06-09-2010, 11:37 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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For the same reason we call ourselves "American" instead of United-Statsian? After all, "American" covers Canada, the United States, Mexico, Guatemala, Belize, El Salvador, Honduras, Nicaragua, Costa Rica, Panama, Colombia, Venezuela, Ecuador, Trinidad and Tobago, Guyana, Suriname, French Guiana, Brazil, Peru, Bolivia, Paraguay, Uruguay, Chile, Argentina and the Falklands.

I'm not positive about Haiti, Cuba or the Dominican Republic, but I don't think so.
When I refer to myself as an American, does anyone say, "Cool, you mean like Canada?"
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