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Old 06-15-2010, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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It probably happens more often than you know, and you just aren't hearing about it. Most people will not admit to enjoying male on male porn as freely because it is considered more taboo, whereas the whole female on female thing is so widely accepted it is almost something to brag about.
Women in general are hardly ever open and honest about their true sexual fantasies and fetishes, except with their female friends.
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Old 06-15-2010, 05:14 PM
 
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Women in general are hardly ever open and honest about their true sexual fantasies and fetishes, except with their female friends.
My female friends will tell you that I for SURE don't get off on watching ANY gay porn...gals, OR guys. No thanks!
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Old 06-16-2010, 07:15 AM
 
Location: Outside always.
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I don't watch porn, and I don't want a guy that is attracted to anyone other than me. Relationships for me are only about two people, one guy and me. I am not bisexual, and I can't understand a guy liking a girl that is. That would just mean that she is more likely to cheat because she has more options.
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Old 06-16-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Wichita,Kansas
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I dont want my g/f or wife to be Bi,I dont why its such a fad the last 15 years.
I would really prefer my girl never even had a bi experience,Yeah im a weirdo lol
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Old 06-16-2010, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I am not bisexual, and I can't understand a guy liking a girl that is. That would just mean that she is more likely to cheat because she has more options.
You just stated a very common myth about bisexual people - that they're promiscuous and can't handle monogamy. Just because someone has the capacity to be attracted to both genders doesn't mean that person is going to "hit anything that moves."
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Old 06-16-2010, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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You just stated a very common myth about bisexual people - that they're promiscuous and can't handle monogamy. Just because someone has the capacity to be attracted to both genders doesn't mean that person is going to "hit anything that moves."
Maybe not but a bisexual person, male or female has more options as far as potential people to cheat with.

If I am with a bisexual woman, perhaps she COULD be faithful but she not only has a pool of potential men to cheat on me but she ALSO has a pool of potential women to cheat on me with giving her a greater number of partners to cheat on me with than a woman who identifies as straight.
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Old 06-16-2010, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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My female friends will tell you that I for SURE don't get off on watching ANY gay porn...gals, OR guys. No thanks!
I know you don't ChessieMom but there are women who do like gay porn and won't admit it and I know for experience that women like being very secretivie about their sexual fantasies.
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Old 06-16-2010, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Maybe not but a bisexual person, male or female has more options as far as potential people to cheat with.

If I am with a bisexual woman, perhaps she COULD be faithful but she not only has a pool of potential men to cheat on me but she ALSO has a pool of potential women to cheat on me with giving her a greater number of partners to cheat on me with than a woman who identifies as straight.
Your logic to me sounds something like this: "bisexual = more potential partners = more people to cheat with; thus, because bisexual people have more potential partners, they are more likely to cheat." Don't you see the flaw in this line of thinking? "Having more options," as you put it, doesn't mean that someone is more or less likely to cheat.

Also, if you actually knew any bisexual people, you'd know that many of them are not equally attracted to both genders and would not necessarily agree with you that their bisexuality doubles their chances of a date.
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Old 06-16-2010, 02:19 PM
 
Location: Toledo
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I know you don't ChessieMom but there are women who do like gay porn and won't admit it and I know for experience that women like being very secretivie about their sexual fantasies.
Secretive or private? I'm not going to blurt out every little detail about my personal life to everyone. I go on a case by case basis.

Some of us just aren't open books. There's nothing wrong with that.
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Old 06-16-2010, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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[quote=passionatearts;14644888]Your logic to me sounds something like this: "bisexual = more potential partners = more people to cheat with; thus, because bisexual people have more potential partners, they are more likely to cheat." Don't you see the flaw in this line of thinking? "Having more options," as you put it, doesn't mean that someone is more or less likely to cheat.

Also, if you actually knew any bisexual people, you'd know that many of them are not equally attracted to both genders and would not necessarily agree with you that their bisexuality doubles their chances of a date.[/quote]

You tickle me. Why do you sound so offended pasionateearts???

Yes it does. If I say that I am going to swear off of candy for 2 months and lets say you put a few pieces of candy in front of me, I won't be too tempted but you put maybe 30 pieces in front of me I am going to be more tempted and more likely to eat the candy.

See how the logic works?

I never said that all bisexual are equally attracted to both sexes. I actually think that NO one is equally attracted to both sexes and that everyone has a preference for either sex. But bisexual are attracted enough to the same sex to cheat with.
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