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Old 05-27-2010, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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OK..I just gotta know...

Guys…why can’t you last long in bed? Geez! My hubby was good when we were younger, but damn he’s only 31 now and can barely last 5 minutes after I’ve climaxed(manual stimulation, mind you). He can only hold off long enough for me to finish and then he’s done…many times I try to finish quick because I know he’s at the end of his “holding off” rope. Don’t get me wrong, the sex is enjoyable..and those last pumps when he knows I’m done and he can really let go are the BEST…but it’s over too quick for me (and I’m talking quick…no more than a minute). Our sessions usually last about 15 minutes….but it’s mostly careful strokes on his end….nothing like what he does at the end.

I know this doesn’t apply to all guys, but to the men to which it does…WHAT GIVES???!!! It’s INCREDIBLY frustrating to be with a guy that always wants sex, but is "tentative" throughout and can only last mere minutes when he's going all out. 30 minutes of "good" loving is all a girl asks…is that too much?? I’d even take the 15 minutes if he was giving me the best that he’s got!

 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:19 PM
 
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Be lucky Al Bundy isn't your husband. He can only go 1 minute.
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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How's his overall health? Blood pressure? Any signs of diabetes?

Could be more to it than just what you posted about.
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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Be lucky Al Bundy isn't your husband. He can only go 1 minute.
lol...I'm serious, though. What is it about the act of sex that you just CAN'T hold off? I mean, really!
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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How's his overall health? Blood pressure? Any signs of diabetes?

Could be more to it than just what you posted about.
As we've gotten older, he's gained maybe 20 pounds. He's not in any way fat, but he's definitely thicker and has a belly pouch.
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:23 PM
 
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lol...I'm serious, though. What is it about the act of sex that you just CAN'T hold off? I mean, really!

Do you have sex regularly? If not, maybe more sex will help him last longer?
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:24 PM
 
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How's his overall health? Blood pressure? Any signs of diabetes?

Could be more to it than just what you posted about.

Wouldn't that have the reverse effect?
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Be happy he's still attracted to you. Busting a nut quickly is a sign he's still very turned on by you. Have you discussed this with him? Let him know that you appreciate him holding out for as long as you get yours, but you'd still like to continue longer. I'm sure he can go back to daydreaming about baseball and fixing that leaky faucet in the sink while getting some more mileage out of him.
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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Do you have sex regularly? If not, maybe more sex will help him last longer?
Nope...that's not it. And it's not just my hubby. In prior sexual experiences there have been guys that can't hold off for long.
 
Old 05-27-2010, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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And what's the problem? Isn't it good that he can only last 5 minutes? I know women hate sex and think it's disgusting so isn't it better the sooner it's over? That way you don't have to suffer too long...
I LOVE great sex...so-so sex I can do without and will plead headache. As I mentioned, he can give a "good" 15 or even 20 minutes (with tentative, not too deep strokes) but a GREAT 5. Just wondering what gives with some men not being able to last long unless it's tentatively done.
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