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Old 05-28-2010, 08:47 PM
 
Location: South FL
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No, we don't keep in touch, but I know he is doing very well. He has a nice family, great wife, 3 kids.
Almost immediately after the break-up, he became very very religious. I'm talking going to the temple all the time, reading Torah day and night, hard-core Judaism follower. I really would like to think that I had nothing to do with this.
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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I know where she is.

She rarely emails me.

She married against her will.

She bore him a child against her will.

But today, all I can say is, she missed the bus. And that's how it was destined to be

WOW.

How do you feel about all that?
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:48 PM
 
Location: South FL
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I know where she is.

She rarely emails me.

She married against her will.

She bore him a child against her will.

But today, all I can say is, she missed the bus. And that's how it was destined to be
How do you know it was against her will, just out of curiousity?
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I am still friends with him. We are buds on face book and email each other. And I met his lovely fiance.
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:55 PM
 
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How do you know it was against her will, just out of curiousity?
I'm not sure if AC wants to expand on the topic again, basically it was an arranged marriage due to culture, cast system etc.
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:59 PM
 
Location: South FL
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I'm not sure if AC wants to expand on the topic again, basically it was an arranged marriage due to culture, cast system etc.
Okay, no prob. AC.
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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WOW.

How do you feel about all that?
I have a troubled youth. Today I dare to speak about it becoz I am on self-imposed exile from my homeland. Also becoz two subsequent girlfriends in foreign countries have made me get over it.

I went loco for 3 years and gained close to 100 pounds. My self-destruction was played out in front of my Dad. The sight of the destruction of the achiever he raised so religiously slowly killed him. One fine evening, he died. Today I use my paycheques to decorate his grave, becoz I got over her only at his funeral, when the ritual freaks were widowing my mother 30 feet away.
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Old 05-28-2010, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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It ended before it ever began, destroyed by a third party who once had great power over me.

We never spoke again, nor did I ever hear any news of her past that hideous day.
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Old 05-28-2010, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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I have a troubled youth. Today I dare to speak about it becoz I am on self-imposed exile from my homeland. Also becoz two subsequent girlfriends in foreign countries have made me get over it.

I went loco for 3 years and gained close to 100 pounds. My self-destruction was played out in front of my Dad. The sight of the destruction of the achiever he raised so religiously slowly killed him. One fine evening, he died. Today I use my paycheques to decorate his grave, becoz I got over her only at his funeral, when the ritual freaks were widowing my mother 30 feet away.

I'm really sorry if I reopened any old wounds for you. I had no idea.

But from your words here, it sounds like you are truly okay with it all now. Your mess is now your message...
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Old 05-28-2010, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I'm really sorry if I reopened any old wounds for you. I had no idea.

But from your testimony, it sounds like you are truly okay with it all now. Your mess is now your message?
No, I like to vent it out once in a while. I didn't even go to therapy. It went on self-cure mode. Time heals

The anger element is attached to the fact that I was attacked by a group of men and when I was unconscious in the hospital, they married her off in her village ranch in the Indian state of Orissa. So fast paced that I came to senses in a few days and I was officially told she got married. I was sitting like this ~~~~~~~~~>

Whenever I tell my brother and my mom that I am coming home, they are like nuh-uh........ that's why mom likes to fly out here and stay with me for prolonged periods. She spends all the time trying to convince me that I didn't really kill Dad, but diabetes did. When she comes to the US, she loves to wear coloured sarees, coz she only wears them white, back home.

Today I'm good. The US has provided excellent exile forest But I am planning to visit in my mid-30s. That would be 10 years later than coming out of the country.
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