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Old 05-29-2010, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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Jrsegrl, that is awesome! Good for you guys.

I seem to be really good friends with several of my exes. It's weird because there are few ex-boyfriends or guys I've dated that I just want no contact with them anymore. I may not encourage it but it is also good to see and hear someone is doing well!

Eta Choclot, too. That has to be a good feeling knowing you are with the one you loved first!

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Old 05-29-2010, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Well, I happen to agree with you here. Even though we are sinners, we still need to do our best to follow The Word, faith is not enough. I think everyone struggles with some demons and when I came to this realization, it was easier for me to accept my own.
I also remember that sin is a sin is a sin. Don't you agree that the most important thing is condition of our hearts?
Yes. Debauchery is a very dangerous thing. My father used to lecture as to how it can stunt mathematical capability, meritoriousness in school and professionalism. The last thing is one reason why porn is universally banned from every office space.

I believe a man loses focus if he is living in debauchery.

Are you eastern orthodox? I remember you hail from Ukraine?
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Old 05-29-2010, 03:19 PM
 
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In this age of the internet, Facebook, cell phone, people finding sites, etc...

Do you know where he/she is right now? How they are doing? Are you two friends (friendly)?
My first love found me a few years ago on the internet, but not through a social networking site. He got my email and sent me a message. It was great to hear from him. He was the best first a girl could have. He now has 4 or 5 kids and is doing well. We're fb friends and plan on meeting up one of these days. He's awesome.
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Old 05-29-2010, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Friends with my very first bf on fb. The love of my life is on there but I couldn't bear to see his life..We still run into each other down here and trust me, that's more than enough..
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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In this age of the internet, Facebook, cell phone, people finding sites, etc...

Do you know where he/she is right now? How they are doing? Are you two friends (friendly)?
No, no and no.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:33 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Yes. Debauchery is a very dangerous thing. My father used to lecture as to how it can stunt mathematical capability, meritoriousness in school and professionalism. The last thing is one reason why porn is universally banned from every office space.

I believe a man loses focus if he is living in debauchery.

Are you eastern orthodox? I remember you hail from Ukraine?
Non-denominational Messianic Christian, but I'm probably the most liberal open-minded Christian you can find, which in itself is an oxymoron.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:45 PM
 
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Only due to my recent curiosity and internet "stalking" do I now know where she is, after losing her nearly 40 years ago.
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:03 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Touched base a few years ago.

I realized through that brief encounter that I wasted my youth, and some adult life, pining away for someone who really didn't give a freakin' flip about me.

I was under the false assumption that we both lost our first loves to tragic circumstances. Ha! What a joke.

Man, I wish I could go back in time with the information I have now.
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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Yes, I know where he is

He's blind

Thinking he's gonna get some sympathy sex

I really thought is was love at 15.
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Old 05-29-2010, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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Touched base a few years ago.

I realized through that brief encounter that I wasted my youth, and some adult life, pining away for someone who really didn't give a freakin' flip about me.

I was under the false assumption that we both lost our first loves to tragic circumstances. Ha! What a joke.

Man, I wish I could go back in time with the information I have now.

You're not the first, you won't be the last, either.
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