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DavieJ, just take it slowly and get to know her a little before you plan a big date. Give yourself some time to adjust to your new job and new home/lifestyle before you start getting emotionally involved with any girl.
As far as the picnic idea goes, though, thumbs up. Sounds very sweet, innocent and fun to me!
Dont jump the gun here buddy, especially in the workplace. Talk to the young lady and get to know her "at work". You just saw her one day and already planning a date-slow down-she may not be as well-mannered and polite as you think. I would say take her to lunch
"at work" and just have a casual conversation-see where her head is-then if she's is into you and she is the well-mannered girl you think she is then ask her out. And be careful with relationships at work.
Agree. A relationship with someone at work can be a nightmare. Been there and done that enough times to know that. Your results may vary so good luck...
Obviously I'm not a young, sexi girl. But, I think this COULD work and be pretty awesome. Obviously you have to know your target. So, that will take a bit of work on your part. If she sounds like she finds that corny don't bother to do it. There is no one thing that is going to work on all women, since they are all special and unique in their own rights. However, most women want to be made to feel special, and listened to.
So, I would say that you should plan a picnic, and include things she tells you she likes. I don't know, that's what I'd do.
Obviously I'm not a young, sexi girl. But, I think this COULD work and be pretty awesome. Obviously you have to know your target. So, that will take a bit of work on your part. If she sounds like she finds that corny don't bother to do it. There is no one thing that is going to work on all women, since they are all special and unique in their own rights. However, most women want to be made to feel special, and listened to.
So, I would say that you should plan a picnic, and include things she tells you she likes. I don't know, that's what I'd do.
I stopped in at my job the other day to check my work schedule and she was outside in the 110 degree heat getting carts. I grabbed a few things to buy, and went to the line she was working.
She seemed pleasant and asked me when I was working again and I told her, and I asked about her schedule as well. I told her about how I saw her getting carts and that the Aquafina I bought was for her. She insisted she didn't need it, that she was going home in 15 minutes
The conversation seemed pretty pleasant enough, but I hope offering her the water wasn't coming on too strong
i would love for a man to take me on a picnic or a stroll in the park,,
not many men do that now a days so i think its a perfect first date,,go for it.
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