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Old 06-04-2010, 08:56 PM
 
Location: 112 Ocean Avenue
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I got $5 on it that she does already

But ima try anyway
If she does have a boyfriend then find out his name and go here Criminal Searches - FREE criminal searches on anyone and see if you can dig up some dirt on him.

All is fair in love and war. If you want to have both love and war then get married.
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Old 06-04-2010, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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If she does have a boyfriend then find out his name and go here Criminal Searches - FREE criminal searches on anyone and see if you can dig up some dirt on him.

All is fair in love and war. If you want to have both love and war then get married.
If she does have a bf I highly doubt I will need to do a criminal search
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Old 06-04-2010, 10:13 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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If she does have a bf I highly doubt I will need to do a criminal search
Lol nice to see that you're not that psycho.
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Old 06-05-2010, 01:15 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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DavieJ, just take it slowly and get to know her a little before you plan a big date. Give yourself some time to adjust to your new job and new home/lifestyle before you start getting emotionally involved with any girl.

As far as the picnic idea goes, though, thumbs up. Sounds very sweet, innocent and fun to me!
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Old 06-05-2010, 02:07 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Dont jump the gun here buddy, especially in the workplace. Talk to the young lady and get to know her "at work". You just saw her one day and already planning a date-slow down-she may not be as well-mannered and polite as you think. I would say take her to lunch
"at work" and just have a casual conversation-see where her head is-then if she's is into you and she is the well-mannered girl you think she is then ask her out. And be careful with relationships at work.
Agree. A relationship with someone at work can be a nightmare. Been there and done that enough times to know that. Your results may vary so good luck...
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Old 06-07-2010, 11:27 AM
 
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Obviously I'm not a young, sexi girl. But, I think this COULD work and be pretty awesome. Obviously you have to know your target. So, that will take a bit of work on your part. If she sounds like she finds that corny don't bother to do it. There is no one thing that is going to work on all women, since they are all special and unique in their own rights. However, most women want to be made to feel special, and listened to.

So, I would say that you should plan a picnic, and include things she tells you she likes. I don't know, that's what I'd do.
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Old 06-07-2010, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Camberville
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I'm 22 and would absolutely, positively say no to any man who asks me out that I worked with, regardless of how nice the first date seemed.

Don't date coworkers, no matter how hot and well mannered they might seem.
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Old 06-08-2010, 02:07 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Obviously I'm not a young, sexi girl. But, I think this COULD work and be pretty awesome. Obviously you have to know your target. So, that will take a bit of work on your part. If she sounds like she finds that corny don't bother to do it. There is no one thing that is going to work on all women, since they are all special and unique in their own rights. However, most women want to be made to feel special, and listened to.

So, I would say that you should plan a picnic, and include things she tells you she likes. I don't know, that's what I'd do.
I stopped in at my job the other day to check my work schedule and she was outside in the 110 degree heat getting carts. I grabbed a few things to buy, and went to the line she was working.

She seemed pleasant and asked me when I was working again and I told her, and I asked about her schedule as well. I told her about how I saw her getting carts and that the Aquafina I bought was for her. She insisted she didn't need it, that she was going home in 15 minutes

The conversation seemed pretty pleasant enough, but I hope offering her the water wasn't coming on too strong
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Old 06-08-2010, 05:42 PM
 
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i would love for a man to take me on a picnic or a stroll in the park,,
not many men do that now a days so i think its a perfect first date,,go for it.
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Old 06-08-2010, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Sounds like a great first date.
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