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For you ladies buying poles for home-use - if you buy the kind with a weighted base, just realize that you can't do quite the same type of moves that a fully-installed / top-and-bottom-secured pole allows.
For those with the "pro" pole - MAKE SURE YOU HAVE IT INSTALLED PROPERLY! Just Google "pole dancing disasters" to see what happens when you don't. The risk of serious injury is too great to skimp in this area.
Thanks Phil, I like a man who knows how to properly place a pole.
A few months ago a girlfriend of mine asked me if I was interested in joining her for a pole dancing fitness class. Having always heard they are a barrell of laughs with the girls and also help to get you fit, I was instantly excited and accepted. When I went home that night and told my boyfriend I was going to be taking the class he was not pleased. He went all quiet on me and when I asked him what was up he said he thought doing the class was sleazy and disrespectful to him, and that if his family was having a get together one night and I was at one of my "classes" he would be embarrassed to tell them so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to be dancing in a thong in front of a room full of men, but in a hall in my sweats with a bunch of other women, but he wouldn't have it.
He didn't say he didn't want me to do it, but he made me feel terribly guilty so I told my girlfriend I had changed my mind. All these months later, even though I didn't even take the class, he makes remarks if anything about pole dancing comes on tv - "she's just getting fit, right?" and things like that. I ask him "please don't say that, I didn't even take the class" and he responds with "hey, I didn't say you couldn't do it". In my opinion he didn't have to. If I had chosen to take that class he would have punished me and punished me, but he would have done it in a joking way even though he was serious, just so he didn't show up as the bad guy.
Guys how would you feel if your girl came to you and told you she wanted to participate in one of these classes? Is my bf just being insecure or is he right? To me it just seemed like a bit of fun with your girlfriends!
your bf is acting weird. it's not like you wanted to wear skimpy clothes around other men or dance in front of them. he should try to enjoy it.
if it makes you feel sexy and you're not being unfaithful in any way, he should support you feeling good and getting fit... in my opinion.
eh maybe he's just putting up a front and will ask to see your dancing skills later
Trust me, the whole pole in your living room is sooo much fun!! My best friend has it and we drink and play around on it. I give her tips for her man, lol.
I don't care what most women say, when they see a pole and it can be played around on in private, they do it. Another friend has one and he says when he has parties, ALL women beg him to put it up and they dance and play on it. He says its very entertaining and sexy. Of course alcohol helps lower their inhibitions but they all end up saying its a sexy feeling because its "taboo" but fun at the same time.
Pole dancing classes are fun and you can get in shape, etc. However, consult a professional for the best and most attention getting moves
Not only is is sexy but it's a form of art..This girl is absoutely AMAZING!!! If you don't want to see any booty, don't watch video then but she's fully clothed..
For you ladies buying poles for home-use - if you buy the kind with a weighted base, just realize that you can't do quite the same type of moves that a fully-installed / top-and-bottom-secured pole allows.
For those with the "pro" pole - MAKE SURE YOU HAVE IT INSTALLED PROPERLY! Just Google "pole dancing disasters" to see what happens when you don't. The risk of serious injury is too great to skimp in this area.
^^^ Phil knows what he's talking about!! I found this video of some pole disasters....still wiping the tears from my eyes!
A few months ago a girlfriend of mine asked me if I was interested in joining her for a pole dancing fitness class. Having always heard they are a barrell of laughs with the girls and also help to get you fit, I was instantly excited and accepted. When I went home that night and told my boyfriend I was going to be taking the class he was not pleased. He went all quiet on me and when I asked him what was up he said he thought doing the class was sleazy and disrespectful to him, and that if his family was having a get together one night and I was at one of my "classes" he would be embarrassed to tell them so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to be dancing in a thong in front of a room full of men, but in a hall in my sweats with a bunch of other women, but he wouldn't have it.
He didn't say he didn't want me to do it, but he made me feel terribly guilty so I told my girlfriend I had changed my mind. All these months later, even though I didn't even take the class, he makes remarks if anything about pole dancing comes on tv - "she's just getting fit, right?" and things like that. I ask him "please don't say that, I didn't even take the class" and he responds with "hey, I didn't say you couldn't do it". In my opinion he didn't have to. If I had chosen to take that class he would have punished me and punished me, but he would have done it in a joking way even though he was serious, just so he didn't show up as the bad guy.
Guys how would you feel if your girl came to you and told you she wanted to participate in one of these classes? Is my bf just being insecure or is he right? To me it just seemed like a bit of fun with your girlfriends!
Does he only have sex missionary style too? Sounds like a real tight ass to me.
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I found this video of some pole disasters....still wiping the tears from my eyes! 
OUCH!!!
