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Tell me about it, someone knocks on the door...your like...think of something gross....then your like ok I'm sick now.
Speaking of knocking on the door. Say your guy is out of town for a couple days. You are home and the UPS guy knocks, or the AT &T guy...lol. Anyway he is hot. So here you are alone, your guy is out of town, you feel horny. You ( any of you responding) won't maybe have a mind fantasy about the UPS guy instead of hubby when you go be alone?
I had the impression some women are like that, these replies makes me believe more. I think most guys can't do that though, just enjoy the fun. Guys need a visual stimulation which then imagination starts.
One girlfriend once told me about how a vacum cleaner really does it for her, I was like what? Don't know how a fantasy goes with that. So I watched her with it one time, and helped, but I think the feeling was it, from it, not some man fantasy or even me there lol.
Yes I can just use my imagination and or past good memory to get it going, but a visual helper is just so much better.
Speaking of knocking on the door. Say your guy is out of town for a couple days. You are home and the UPS guy knocks, or the AT &T guy...lol. Anyway he is hot. So here you are alone, your guy is out of town, you feel horny. You ( any of you responding) won't maybe have a mind fantasy about the UPS guy instead of hubby when you go be alone?
Considering I don't have a hubby....I'm letting my imagination go wild!!!
If you can say, say it. If you use alone time, define what is going on in your mind. Do you fantasize about a particular man?, do you fantasize about someone other than your boyfriend or hubby if you have one? Or do you not fantasize about a guy when using *alone time*?
I want to know because reading the threads about "my guy looks at, hides porn", women who are against it say they want their guy to think and fantasize about them only always and forever.
So let me ask, do you think and fantasize about your one guy always and forever? Seriously, when you are alone with Mr. vib or Mr dild*, or whatever your method, is your man who you are commited to in your mind always?
I'm so sorry Lion, but my alone thoughts are meant to stay in my head.
I'm so sorry Lion, but my alone thoughts are meant to stay in my head.
OK those that respond this way "it's private", I will understand that it might be. But I am not asking some details of some fantasy,, simply a "yes I do fantasize sometimes, but it is just a fantasy because in the end I do love my hubby".
But for you all that say you don't well I will believe...maybe. However, I might take it as those that reply "no" will say so in truth because it is safe to say so, while those that say it is "private" might answer that way because it might be like pleading the 5th.
OK those that respond this way "it's private", I will understand that it might be. But I am not asking some details of some fantasy,, simply a "yes I do fantasize sometimes, but it is just a fantasy because in the end I do love my hubby".
But for you all that say you don't well I will believe...maybe. However, I might take it as those that reply "no" will say so in truth because it is safe to say so, while those that say it is "private" might answer that way because it might create .........
Well, not to use a cliche word, but "duh"...That goes without saying.
The majority of women do fantasize sometimes (well, for exception of loveMountains who somehow was able to put a mental blockage against any imaginary lovers and concentrate on her husband only).
Well, not to use a cliche word, but "duh"...That goes without saying.
The majority of women do fantasize sometimes (well, for exception of loveMountains who somehow was able to put a mental blockage against any imaginary lovers and concentrate on her husband only).
hahahahaha - well, if you knew my husband he'd likely become your fantasy too
I'm telling you, I have the best - so no one else captures my imagination Maybe that makes me strange to some of you - oh well!!
Interesting so far that the women who say they absolutely never fantasize about another man , are the same ones who are outspoken critics about their guy potentially looking at a vid or pic sometimes.
Although it was mentioned that it may make her feel "emotionally betrayed", the funny thing is a guy looking at a vid or pic isn't feeling any type of emotional fantasy to who he is looking at. All his emotion is still to his special other. At least for most men I assume.
You need to do your research again. I have nothing against porn and will even join in if he wants to watch.
Love that response. Put me in my place! Hey, you know what, all you ladies responding I will respect your reply, I just had to try just a little bit before the final acceptance.
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, simply a "yes I do fantasize sometimes, but it is just a fantasy because in the end I do love my hubby".
