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Jasmine728 · 06-14-2010, 12:23 AM

For me its usually a past experience that I'm reliving... not always my current man though... it varies. Sometimes it's about someone random but not usually.

mellanieblue · 06-14-2010, 12:34 AM

I do look at other attractive men, and I am sure my fiance looks at attractive women.
But when I am alone, I do think about him. Maybe I'm weird, but I m madly in love with him, very attracted to him, and cannot stop thinking about him. Sometimes when he falls asleep before I do, I just admire how handsome he is and consider myself very lucky to be lying next to him.
Now if I am out and about and there is a really hot guy around, yes, I may look twice and think "Wow, he is good looking..."
But during alone time, I'm missing the one I am absolutely crazy about...

Mooseketeer · 06-14-2010, 04:43 AM

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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

Yes. I can honestly say that I do think about my guy! Is this such a surprise?

Spot on Yankeegirl ! I have been with Hubby for over 21 years and yep I still only fantasise about him and him alone.... Why is this so hard to accept is beyond me.

I can look at attractive men and find them attractive but it doesn't me I think about having sex with them. One can appreciate beauty without wanting to bed it.

Hubby rocks my world and I have never, not once ever wanted to sleep or thought about sleeping with someone else. Why should I ? He is the person I want, the person I love and the person I find irresistibly sexy. All other men are nothing more than background to me. White noise if you will. Sexually anyway.

Gudra · 06-14-2010, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Mooseketeer

One can appreciate beauty without wanting to bed it.

All other men are nothing more than background to me. White noise if you will. Sexually anyway.

One doesn't actually have to have sex in bed- merely LYING on it (can you tell my family's detail- oriented ?)

And it could just as well be ''black or brown noise'' .

Mooseketeer · 06-14-2010, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Gudra

One doesn't actually have to have sex in bed- merely LYING on it (can you tell my family's detail- oriented ?)

And it could just as well be ''black or brown noise'' .

Purple with orange spots noise ?!