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Old 06-07-2010, 03:37 PM
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I have been wondering about that question recently. You see, I am 21 years old already and I still have never had a girlfriend. I don't know if that's an issue of looks or something else. Please help me solve this question by giving me your most honest answer. I greatly appreciate your help. Many thanks in advance.

PS: This is not a troll thread. I am seriously asking you guys for your honest opinion.

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Old 06-07-2010, 03:49 PM
Location: NH
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You make me want to be 21 instead of 41. Not ugly at all, I think you are very handsome.

Women tend to make a decision based on more than just looks...personality and confidence play a big role. Keep trying, pay close attention to what she likes and is interested in doing. She's out there for you.
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:49 PM
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you're fine man. The fact that you're asking this question instantly screams that it's an issue other than looks.
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:51 PM
Location: San Antonio, TX
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I'm old enough to be your Mom.....and I think you are a sharp looking young man, who should have no trouble attracting ladies for conversation and social dates......HOWEVER - you need to know that you could be movie star material and completely BLOW IT, if you are disrespectful, have awful manners, speak ill of your mother (), drink excessively, etc....not that any one of these things is all that terrible - but you know what I mean - looks aren't all that factor into 'attractiveness' - so if you aren't having any luck with a girlfriend - you might need to dig deeper than your outer physical package......good luck!
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:58 PM
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Your a nice looking young guy.

This means that you are either looking in the wrong places OR are too shy etc.

I would recommend working on social skills and also lift some weights and get on a serious exercise program. If nothing else it will also help with your confidence.

ALSO do NOT TELL the girls you haven't dated.

Go on one of the on-line things and that way you will get a few dates and can just make those practice dates with no expectations.

It's like you have never played tennis but want to get good at it? Get in shape and get some practice.
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Old 06-07-2010, 03:59 PM
Location: Wherever women are
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LMAO. That cell phone would cry if it had eyes
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:04 PM
Location: Long Island
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I think you have that sexy "William Hung" quality going for you
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:11 PM
Location: North Carolina
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It's not your looks man. My suggestion would be to just relax and not stress over getting a girlfriend. It'll happen when it's time. I mean you're just 21.
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:13 PM
Location: NYC
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I think you are handsome.
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:20 PM
Location: the good ol' USA where freedom rings
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I wouldn't go so far as handsome, but I think you are attractive. I'm not a fan of the buzzcut, perhaps growing your hair out will make you look hotter.

Like these styles:



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