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Old 01-31-2013, 08:08 AM
 
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Hi group: I hope someone can help me with this. We have been invited to a colleague's kid's bar mitzvah and have no idea what is customary to wear and what kind of present to give. There is an event on a Friday but the big even will be on a Saturday morning-thru-afternoon. I will appreciate any do's/don't for ladies dress (need to cover shoulders?) as well as what recommendations for presents (cash ok?).
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:28 AM
 
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Go as yourself, dress how u would normally dress. be you.
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:06 AM
 
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Go as yourself, dress how u would normally dress. be you.
I'll give you advice from a Jew.

Dress as modestly as you feel comfortable. Men will likely be wearing suits, and women in corresponding nice attire. Give the Bar Mitzvah boy a check. Then enjoy - should be a beautiful event.
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Old 01-31-2013, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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You may (or may not) be given a yarmulke to wear while there. Make sure you're comfortable. The ceremony lasts a while.
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Old 01-31-2013, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Long Island
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I'll give you advice from a Jew.

Dress as modestly as you feel comfortable. Men will likely be wearing suits, and women in corresponding nice attire. Give the Bar Mitzvah boy a check. Then enjoy - should be a beautiful event.
Yep, this.

Typically "Sunday-best" church attire is good, but make sure it's comfortable. There will most likely be kippas available.
Friday night service will be a couple of hours most likely, and Saturday's service can last into early afternoon.

As far as skin, I'd suggest longer skirts/dresses, and covering at least the shoulder.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:17 PM
 
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You may (or may not) be given a yarmulke to wear while there. Make sure you're comfortable. The ceremony lasts a while.
I believe the OP is a female. You will not be given a yarmulke to wear. And if you are, please don't tell me about it...
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Long Island
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As far as skin, I'd suggest longer skirts/dresses, and covering at least the shoulder.
Just to expand on this: If you don't know the community, I'd suggest wearing at least partial sleeves and taking a light jacket or sweater. That way you can adapt to whatever the norm is at that particular synagogue.
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Old 01-31-2013, 04:05 PM
 
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