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Originally Posted by RosemaryT
You're right about that.
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How sad.
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Originally Posted by RosemaryT
You're not going to talk Christians out of their beliefs using words, because (speaking for myself), I have experienced something that transcends all human opinions. I shan't be talked out of it by anyone.
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Yeah, sure.
My father said the same thing - and started going on and on about how it was Jesus.
I asked him,"But how do you know it was Jesus?"
And he replied with: "Well, who else could it have been?"
Wow, two fallacies in the same sentence - the false dilemma fallacy and the argument from ignorance fallacy.
While I don't doubt that you had an "experience," a rational person would admit that they really don't know what it was or what caused it. However, far too many are irrational and assume that any little brain fart is a divine epiphany.
And the brain is a funny, easily deceived organ. But don't let that stop you from believing in the unsubstantiated with all your heart.
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Originally Posted by RosemaryT
I do have a question for you. Are you happy?
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Don't ask me if I'm happy. I'm not a "typical" atheist meaning I would be a statistical outlier regardless of what my beliefs were.
I can guarantee this, however - religion isn't going to change anything. Because I can have the same hopes as any believer. Better ones, in fact. While simultaneously keeping my beliefs in the realm of reality.
And I don't have to deal with ancient books, horrible morals, and I am free to put my family, friends, and fellow human beings FIRST and foremost in my life - not some despicable Bronze Age god with ego problems.
Granted, i don't know precisely what you believe - but considering you took Odie Olsteen at her word without so much as an eyelash-bat with all of her Biblical mambo-jahambo, I'm guessing you're Christian.
Sorry, but once you know what I know about Christianity and see it for what it is, there's no putting the toothpaste back in the tube.
The ONLY thing that might change is having a much larger support network among church congregants. But I don't have to buy into the dogma and the mysticism to have that - I could march myself to the nearest church and get that without believing a word they say about god.
Besides, if I asked for help from any of them, most of them would probably pray for me and tell me to read some Bible passages rather than give me the help I really need - which is tangible and actually requires effort and real caring on the part of the other person.
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It'd be interesting to see the "happiness quotient" for atheists vs. believers.
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Alright, then .... let's get into this a little, shall we?
I remember reading in college a peer reviewed study involving two groups of students - one group having been diagnosed with depression while the other group was free of any diagnosed mental illnesses.
Each group was asked to play a game similar to that old electronic game from the late 70s early 80s called Simon. In case you don't know the game, it works like this: There are four colors, usually red, blue, green, and yellow. Each color lights up and plays a musical note unique to that color.
The object of the game is to repeat the pattern of lights and notes for as long as you can until you make a mistake - somewhat similar to Simon Says. If red, blue, and green light up, then you press red, blue and green. Every "round" adds an extra light and tone so the next one would be red, blue, green, and red. The one after that would be red, blue, green, red, and yellow. And so on until the pattern becomes so long you eventually mess it up.
SO....
The caveat to this experiment was that the game was rigged so that no matter how long you could keep going, the game would eventually buzz you as being incorrect - even if you WERE correct.
The normal people with no diagnosed mental illnesses kept playing - even when they grew frustrated. They held on to this belief that, if they could play just one more time, they could beat it. Oh, they were so close to winning! Yeah, they kept to their old fashioned "can do!" attitude, that nothing was impossible, and all it took was a bit of tenacity and perseverence to eventually win the game. Don't give up!
The depressed people - almost down to the very last one - figured out the game was rigged within two or three attempts. They knew what button to push and it was incorrect anyway. The majority of them quit before their 5th attempt and told the doctors that either a) the game was rigged or b) the game was broken so there was no reason to keep playing it.
Bottom line is that, thanks to studies like this one (there have been many), depressed people tend to have a greater grasp of reality that their normal counterparts - which is part of what makes them depressed. Happiness is, in most respects, the art of self-delusion. To be able to really and truly believe that "everything will be okay" and "it will all work out" and for many, "God is real and he is looking out for us."
And you have to believe in those things no matter how unlikely, no matter how ridiculous, no matter how impossible the prospect.
Depressed people see the world, quite often, for what it really is. There is no fluff in our lives, no smoke and mirrors that distract us from the reality that is - whether good or bad. Unfortunately, in this world, it is quite often bad.
So even IF there was scientific proof that atheists are less happy than believers, there is still a very important question to resolve:
Does atheism itself cause unhappiness and depression? Or are unhappy or depressed people simply more readily drawn to atheism because they see reality a bit more clearly than normal folks?
I know what you want to believe already - that atheism itself causes unhappiness. But that's the least likely of the two since there are many many perfectly happy atheists. Why aren't they miserable, unhappy, and suffering from depression?