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Thank You all for your advice, talk about the neighbors from Hell!
I struck up a conversation with two women that live adjacent to me yesterday, turns out, these people and their visitors have been harassing them as well....and that's because they don't live above them. They have were looking in their windows, and "making fun" of them for being a lesbian couple. I am seriously pissed, this weekend the sister came out, and was actually physically fighting with the woman that lives across from her, this woman, her family and friends must be unglued mentally.
I will start looking for a new place, even though I have lived here for such a long time, it's just so difficult and draining too move! You become so Jaded when adjusting to a new place! It's also the principle, you know?!
Sue them for what? If they are on government aid, they won't have any money for you. I would try to make a case to break the lease with no fees, as the neighbors are the problem.
If you must spend the rest of your life living in apartments do the following:
Make sure you are the one upstairs and
Live in a better complex (i.e. pay more money to get a better class of neighbors).
If you cannot move immediately, then you are going to have to live with it until you can move. Taking them to court is not going to do anything except maybe get you beat up, your apartment robbed and your car vandalized.
You might consider renting a single family home if you can afford it.
It's easy to tell someone to spend more money, but hard to spend more money you don't have.
That is a defeatist attitude. If you want a better quality of life, then you must work toward a scenario where you can obtain one. Either by improving your education, your work skills or get a second job.
Just throwing up you hands and playing the "poor" card, is not going to get you anywhere except living next to white trash losers the rest of your life.
That is a defeatist attitude. If you want a better quality of life, then you must work toward a scenario where you can obtain one. Either by improving your education, your work skills or get a second job.
Just throwing up you hands and playing the "poor" card, is not going to get you anywhere except living next to white trash losers the rest of your life.
I was going to say the same about making sure you rent a top floor apartment next time but actually if ALL the adjoining neighbors are complaining about these same people then maybe try to band together and put pressure on the landlord or management company to take action. Other than that you probably need to consider moving and looking fo a top floor apartment.
"The way you take personal shots at a 2-year-old child makes me want to cheer on your neighbors as they slowly drive you barking mad."
Sorry for the late Reply, but, after being exposed to not only one child who's out of control, but then having to be exposed to 3-4 of them on a nightly basis that are not even suppose to live there.......excuse me for venting....
I love children, I have a niece and nephew that I am very close to, who I have cared for overnight on several ocassions! I know it's the parents fault, but I also know, that due to bad parenting, she's probably going to end up like the mother and "uncle" probably pregnant at an earlier age than the mother! I hate to say it, but it's more likely to happen! I am not trying to justify my actions, but totally unprovoked this passed weekend, one of their visitors called my mother a b****, so let's not pretend we're dealing with civilized people here...these are jungle people. How dare you try to pretend that you are some sort of paradigm on moral authority by judging me, and the contempt that I have toward these people and the all night playground they have upstairs.
Instead of worrying about me taking pot shots at a two year old, maybe you should go on a crusade against mothers who keep up their children until 3:00 AM in the morning, not only is it unhealthy for their neighbors, but for the child itself.
Did you know the child will actually suffer later in life, that a todler needs 13-15 hours of sleep in a 24 hour period not only to function properly, but to develop and mature into an adult.
"The way you take personal shots at a 2-year-old child makes me want to cheer on your neighbors as they slowly drive you barking mad."
Sorry for the late Reply, but, after being exposed to not only one child who's out of control, but then having to be exposed to 3-4 of them on a nightly basis that are not even suppose to live there.......excuse me for venting....
I love children, I have a niece and nephew that I am very close to, who I have cared for overnight on several ocassions! I know it's the parents fault, but I also know, that due to bad parenting, she's probably going to end up like the mother and "uncle" probably pregnant at an earlier age than the mother! I hate to say it, but it's more likely to happen! I am not trying to justify my actions, but totally unprovoked this passed weekend, one of their visitors called my mother a *****, so let's not pretend we're dealing with civilized people here...these are jungle people.
You don't sound particularly high-class yourself, and your reply does more to reinforce than reverse my suspicion.
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