Hello and thank you for your advice
After being frustrated for long enough & doing lots of legwork, I am happy to report a positive outcome, we are moving in!
The day we submitted lease app 6/6, it was agreed upon by both realtors that move in date was 6/24. We waited, and waited for an answer.
Basically, my realtor kept saying he wasn't hearing a response from the owner's realtor. So, I called the owner's realtor who gave me the # to the property management co. They said my file wasn't received till 6/17 even though we submitted it to the owner's realtor 6/6! Then our file went for a VERY thorough credit, employment, criminal, bank account and personal reference background check on 6/20. I sweetly harrassed the PM company, owner's realtor AND credit agency to rush this since it was submitted by us on 6/6! Someone was sitting on the app, may never know who? My guess is the PM company that sat on the app.
Finally, 5pm before our move-in day I get a call from the HOA rep wanting to interview me over the phone and said he approved us but has to submit his report and all our paperwork to the rest of the board as a courtesy, so our move-in date is now pushed to Monday 6/27. I reminded him of the agreement and told him we would lose our mover deposit but that didn't matter to them. I am even wire transfering the monies due into the owner's escrow account for Pete's sake!
The lesson I learned is no one cares about your own paperwork but you! So, take matters into your own hands. My realtor profusely apologized that his own client was able to solve this faster than he.