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Originally Posted by mkforu
This is common practice in this neighborhood - other owners leave notes because it alleviates confrontation. I personally do not like the confrontation but obviously the polite way hasn't worked either.
Also a few months ago I left a page of the C & Rs on her doorstep which states "loud noise that disturbs other owners is prohibited" in this neighborhood. What do you think?
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It seems to be a common mistake these days to confuse a friendly chat with someone about noise issues with "confrontation", the classic definition of which is,
"To come face to face with, especially with defiance or hostility".
If I'm unknowingly disturbing someone for any reason I would have absolutely no problem with someone coming to my door, politely introducing themselves with a smile and saying something along the lines of, "Sorry to bother you but do you think you could possibly turn down your TV a bit? The walls here are really thin and the sound really comes through", and go from there.
What
would irk me is (a) someone leaving a note on my doorstep three times (what, you can't even bother to come over and talk to me, meet me as your neighbor?) and (b) follow it up with the relevant pages of the rules. Now you've really ticked me off. I'm playing my TV and stereo at perfectly normal volume during normal reasonable hours and the very fact that you couldn't be bothered to come and talk to me personally frankly made me leery about talking to YOU personally because you may well be a total nut job.
You see how this all escalates so completely unnecessarily?
Go ahead and call the police, complain to the HOA and anyone else. Unless your neighbor is blasting her TV or stereo at major decibels and between 10PM and 7AM, you don't have a leg to stand on. It might have been so easily dealt with if you'd paid less attention to what "other owners" do and used plain common sense. Let's hope you never go out and leave your water running one of these days. Your new neighbor might see it and ignore it instead of immediately alerting someone.