I agree that I am probably just going to have to deal with it and I appreciate all of you who have helped. It just boggles my mind that it has taken me so many emails and monitoring this thread daily in order to get advice from other sources to begin to understand this. As I mentioned before, I am not stupid, but I am no expert either.
Even though the manager may be correct, I am looking at this as a real social justice issue. The average joe should be able to understand his obligations under the law. When I first wrote my notice to vacate, there was no question in my mind at the time that I would be out in 60 days with part of that at a higher price. I was totally blind-sided and it has been eating at me for a month now.
But, I guess it is about time I let it go
Again, thank you to all of you who were able to provide constructive criticism or provide supportive remarks. At least I have learned something through this experience, but it was an expensive lesson!