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Old 04-08-2017, 04:04 PM
 
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my coworker just posted: "We are joining the adult world as new Homeowners!!!"

so, if you're just living in a rental property, despite having really good credit, earning at middle class income or above and supporting immediate families/relatives, you're not a "real" adult?
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Old 04-08-2017, 04:20 PM
 
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We often speak in generalities based on our own viewpoints. That's your co-worker's viewpoint: that home ownership = adult.

Your co-worker's viewpoint has nothing to do with you or anyone else. I wouldn't give it another second's thought.
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Old 04-08-2017, 04:58 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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...despite having really good credit, earning at middle class income or above
and supporting immediate families/relatives...
There are a lot of good reasons for people in this category to choose to not buy a home.

For some it's about a temporary situation for others it's an overall "lifestyle" choice.
The problem is that few of them will compensate for those choices with other economic measures.
Don't be them.
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Old 04-08-2017, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Home is Where You Park It
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Being a real adult means clarifying your own goals and directing your spending accordingly - and not jumping on anyone else's bandwagon.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:02 PM
 
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my coworker just posted: "We are joining the adult world as new Homeowners!!!"

so, if you're just living in a rental property, despite having really good credit, earning at middle class income or above and supporting immediate families/relatives, you're not a "real" adult?

YES, that is the PREVAILING OPINION in this country. Renters have been regarded as second-class citizens from the Founding, at which time renters were not allowed to vote.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Rochester, WA
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Well, if you're going to doubt your own adulthood every time this person passes a life milestone, it's not over yet... just wait till they have kids.

And then... prostate exams.
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Old 04-08-2017, 08:07 PM
 
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Renting and Home Ownership all have pros and cons. In many areas you can make a case for either and make a financially sound decision. There are other non financial factors as well that play into things.

Your friend is proud of their new home, they are tooting their horn a bit and for them it feels like a grown up move. Something they aspired to do. Naturally they talk about it with others.

You on the other hand have to be mature and understand that people speak from their own point of view and that will not always match yours. In other words, don't get all as s hurt over nothing. It isn't a hidden dig at you or anyone else.
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Old 04-08-2017, 08:40 PM
 
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If you cannot afford a home, the mature, adult thing to do is to resist all urges and peer pressure to buy one.
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Old 04-08-2017, 09:04 PM
 
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since this is the renting forum, is everyone replying to my post still living on rental property? just curious as to your decision to rent instead of owning--apart from the obvious temporary situation of course.

i've had several retired patients who have gone the route of renting after having lived in their own homes to "downsize"--that is, not having to take care of maintenance, yard work, etc.
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Old 04-08-2017, 10:02 PM
 
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I feel joining the adult world is buying or renting because you are on your own.
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