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So sorry to waste your time with my my "one time wonder". Perhaps what is trivial or unimportant to you means something to another. I simply needed to hear some first hand experiences or knowledge. Did your mother not teach you that if you have nothing nice or constructive to say, say nothing at all.
And you have gotten that.
The constructive advice is that if you want to resolve this conflict, you must choose to either accept your LL's restrictions or move. If you don't choose, and continue to insist that you can defy your LL on this, your situation will worsen.
There is no fairy godmother who can compel your LL to accept your BF. Life is like this sometimes - you can't get what you really want, so you have to make a difficult decision.
So sorry to waste your time with my my "one time wonder". Perhaps what is trivial or unimportant to you means something to another. I simply needed to hear some first hand experiences or knowledge. Did your mother not teach you that if you have nothing nice or constructive to say, say nothing at all.
If you came here only looking for what you wanted to hear, why come here at all? Just because you didn't like the answers doesn't mean people are wrong.
At one point my boyfriend and I were involved in a domestic violence issue. We went through legal issues he served some time he did his court appointed programs successfully and we have worked through our issues and we have had no issues since
If the domestic violence occurred on the property and the police were involved, your landlord has the right to ban him from the property. There is no time limit to that ban. Once you have been notified that he is banned from the property, if you allow him to be on the property, your landlord can move to evict you.
Fair, maybe not, but it's just the way the laws were written to protect DF victims. In the long run, these laws have help far more victims than the rare inconvenience to the abuser.
All states are different but where I am it depends on if the boyfriend and you had a domestic violence dispute at the rental property. I have a rental property where a tenants girlfriend became violent so she is not allowed on the property. Our lease is pretty clear about my rights regarding that though.
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