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Old 06-07-2017, 05:43 AM
 
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I find it hard to believe that you don't understand your LL's position. Move.
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Old 06-07-2017, 06:28 AM
 
Location: Home is Where You Park It
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So sorry to waste your time with my my "one time wonder". Perhaps what is trivial or unimportant to you means something to another. I simply needed to hear some first hand experiences or knowledge. Did your mother not teach you that if you have nothing nice or constructive to say, say nothing at all.
And you have gotten that.

The constructive advice is that if you want to resolve this conflict, you must choose to either accept your LL's restrictions or move. If you don't choose, and continue to insist that you can defy your LL on this, your situation will worsen.

There is no fairy godmother who can compel your LL to accept your BF. Life is like this sometimes - you can't get what you really want, so you have to make a difficult decision.

Step up to the plate and make it.

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Old 06-07-2017, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Des Moines Metro
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What's with all the 1 post wonders in this forum lately with bizarre stories?
I've been wondering that, too. Is it a way to drive up readership and entice people to post?
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Old 06-07-2017, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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So sorry to waste your time with my my "one time wonder". Perhaps what is trivial or unimportant to you means something to another. I simply needed to hear some first hand experiences or knowledge. Did your mother not teach you that if you have nothing nice or constructive to say, say nothing at all.
If you came here only looking for what you wanted to hear, why come here at all? Just because you didn't like the answers doesn't mean people are wrong.
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Old 06-07-2017, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Southern Quebec
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What's with all the 1 post wonders in this forum lately with bizarre stories?
I've wondered the same thing, not only here, but on another forum I visit.

Just googled and found this:

The Full Moon for June 2017 will be on the early morning on June 9th in the United States and later in the afternoon for Europe.
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Old 06-07-2017, 02:35 PM
 
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At one point my boyfriend and I were involved in a domestic violence issue. We went through legal issues he served some time he did his court appointed programs successfully and we have worked through our issues and we have had no issues since
If the domestic violence occurred on the property and the police were involved, your landlord has the right to ban him from the property. There is no time limit to that ban. Once you have been notified that he is banned from the property, if you allow him to be on the property, your landlord can move to evict you.

Fair, maybe not, but it's just the way the laws were written to protect DF victims. In the long run, these laws have help far more victims than the rare inconvenience to the abuser.
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:13 PM
 
Location: under the beautiful Carolina blue
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Some people can't get out of their own way.
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Old 06-08-2017, 05:43 AM
 
Location: South Florida
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You just go over to the boyfriend's house to visit. There is no reason for him to visit at your place and to cause trouble for you.
This!
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Old 06-08-2017, 05:45 AM
 
Location: Texas
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What's with all the 1 post wonders in this forum lately with bizarre stories?
Lately?!

Sometimes I think the writers of those court tv shows come on here to test their material.
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Old 06-11-2017, 03:52 AM
 
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All states are different but where I am it depends on if the boyfriend and you had a domestic violence dispute at the rental property. I have a rental property where a tenants girlfriend became violent so she is not allowed on the property. Our lease is pretty clear about my rights regarding that though.
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