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Old 08-03-2017, 01:56 PM
 
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What if us family members deny it? And if he does have emails from my brother can that be used as evidence?
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Old 08-03-2017, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Here's a wild suggestion. Move him out and take care of your mother yourself. Problem solved.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:00 PM
 
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That's what I'm trying to do he hasn't, he claims he's too busy to look for a place.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:00 PM
 
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Seriously. If your mother's lease prohibits subletting then she is at risk of losing this apartment.

If you somehow convince this "unofficial part of the family" dude to move out and then go ahead and rent out the apartment for extra cash, then you will be at risk of losing the apartment.

I'd think the nice man that has been so helpful to your family members has a pretty damn good case.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:03 PM
 
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he is NOT ENTITLED to the apartment. it is not his primary residence . end of story. it has zero to do with the fact he pays a bill. he must have lived there for 2 years as his primary . he did not .
Okay, I am a bit confused here (as opposed to being "corn-fused" ). Based on the link that you, yourself posted it states:
Succession rights in rent-stabilized and rent-controlled apartments | Metropolitan Council on Housing
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What qualifies someone as a non-traditional family member eligible for succession rights?

Nontraditional family members who want to establish succession rights to an apartment must be able to prove emotional and financial commitment and interdependence with the primary tenant who moved or died.

The courts consider the following factors:
  • length of the relationship
  • sharing of expenses other than the rent and utilities
  • intermingling of finances—for example, sharing bank accounts that are regularly used by both people
  • engaging in family- type activities
  • formalization of legal obligations and responsibilities between the two parties (naming each other in wills, health proxies, living wills, etc.)
  • holding themselves out as family members through words or acts
  • regular performance of family functions (appearing at each others' family weddings, funerals, reunions, etc.)
  • any other pattern of behavior which shows tenants intended to create a long-term, emotionally committed relationship
So mathjak, why would you say for certain that he is not entitled if all/any of the above factors will be taken into consideration to determine succession rights?

But on the other hand, if subletting or taking in another person was not allowed then it could just make the whole issue nul and void because no one would get the apt because of that breach.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:04 PM
 
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You have not met him, there is something about this guy I don't like. My mom says some weeks he's home during the day and goes out at night, not coming home till the morning. He also stutters a lot when he talks - he claims it's a side effect from the medication he is taking for depression but I don't buy it - I think he is taking drugs, just not the prescribed ones.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:09 PM
 
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This weekend he says he's working - I'm going to go in his room and do some snooping, I know I'll find something.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:09 PM
 
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Okay, I am a bit confused here (as opposed to being "corn-fused" ). Based on the link that you, yourself posted it states:
Succession rights in rent-stabilized and rent-controlled apartments | Metropolitan Council on Housing


So mathjak, why would you say for certain that he is not entitled if all/any of the above factors will be taken into consideration to determine succession rights?

I *think* mathjak was stating that the OP/son is not entitled but I'm getting confused as well.
I went back and read this part

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According to the link Mathjak provided:

Roommates who are not in a family relationship with the prime tenant do not have succession rights, nor do subletters (legal or illegal), nor family members who are not living with the prime tenant.
hmm.
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:11 PM
 
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That's what I'm trying to do he hasn't, he claims he's too busy to look for a place.

I don't know. The "before she passes I want him out" part seems to indicate otherwise.

Maybe he doesn't even want to continue living there. Have you asked him what his plans are?
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Old 08-03-2017, 02:13 PM
 
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Yes, all he says is he will look when he has time, some "project" is keeping him busy
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