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Originally Posted by PhxBarb
Just wondering if any retirees have thought about this and/or have done something like paying ahead for these services.
My Mom started this when she was 80, about 20 years ago. Everything is paid for. In my case, nothing is planned/paid for. I will probably just leave it up to the kids to do whatever they want with me.
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You need to find out if there are plots already paid for, for you.
My Father bought and paid for 4 plots. One for each of us.
Then he paid for his vault at the cemetery. He did not pay for his funeral.
The head stone was free through the U.S. Navy.
We never knew what the marker cost.
Well, as I got ready to get my plans in place, I visited the cemetery.
I want to be cremated and I wanted to know if:
1. My plot can be left empty, no service, nothing. The answer is yes.
2. My plot can have no marker. The answer was yes.
3. Can I buy a marker from any where, and the answer was NO.
This cemetery and many like them, require you to buy a marker from them only. You can not bring in a marker you bought somewhere else.
As it turns out, the cheapest ones they have is over $1900.00. That is if I pay for it now. The cremation was only $1100.00, so it seemed to me, the cost for the required marker, (bronze on granite) was a little high.
Many places sell bronze on granite.
But, if me or my relatives want a marker on my empty plot (empty due to cremation) then they have to buy one from the cemetery. If they want a flower vase it has to be bronze too, and has to be bought from the cemetery too.
So, we have 4 cemeteries. Two are City owned and they let you buy a marker anywhere you want.
The other 2 are privately owned by some company in Pa. when they only own 3 cemeteries south of Va.
So no telling what happens WAY down here.
Maybe they sell out, maybe they close it, etc.
So, I'm not pre-paying the marker or the cremation. My relatives can just use my money to buy the required marker.
They live far away, so the coroner would cremate me quickly, they can not wait days and weeks for family members to be found.
So, you need to plan for the funeral and the issues, if any, with the cemetery.
By the way, the funeral home does not try to contact your relatives.
That is the job of the coroner. and the coroner is involved in any death that does not happen in a hospital.