If you don't want folks to think you're old, stop using words like "Folks" (vacation, music)
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I don't think using "folks" is too horrible compared to some others I hear seniors use: My mother still refers to the hair salon as the "beauty parlor" and her purse as her "pocketbook". These are some terms that you only hear older people using. When was the last time your wife, GF, daughter, etc. said she needed to go to the "beauty parlor"? LOL.
Good ones!
Another one is "icebox" for "refrigerator," which hearkens back to the days when they actually were metal boxes with blocks of ice in them. Another might be "jimmies" for "sprinkles," although this might be a regional thing, such as "pop" for "soda."
Guilty. I say guys and sometimes "you guys". Never, ever would I say gals or dolls.
BTW, I actually received an email this afternoon from a 20 some year old administrative assistant that began "Hi folks". I think "folks" is commonly used regardless of age.
Definition of guy is a person of grotesque appearance or was in the 80's. Hate the rude word and when I hear it at a restaurant I don't get up and leave immediately but that place won't be visited again unless I have to or starve.
I dislike euphemisms and I dislike it when a standard, perfectly good word or phrase has been displaced by a new word or phrase without any change in the meaning. A good example of that is "developmentally disabled" for "mentally retarded". I refuse to use the former and if that marks me as old-fashioned, so be it.
I'm likely not doing this explanation justice but essentially.....The various changes in the use of the terminology such as "mentally retarded" is meant to be more positive/inclusive than the negative term "retard" and has everything to do with empowerment and nothing to do with nomenclature as it relates to this topic.
Not everyone who has a developmental disability is mentally retarded. So if people cringe at the use of "mentally retarded" it has little to do with how old the speaker is.
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