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Old 11-23-2019, 01:59 AM
 
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... Either that or I'm really the odd one who doesn't match with anyone on the planet.
I'm sure that's it, of course. Hey, I've seen your picture!
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Old 11-23-2019, 05:06 AM
 
Location: Redwood City, CA
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A lot.
Helpful.

My husband left me two weeks ago, so thanks for your sensitivity.
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Old 11-23-2019, 05:29 AM
 
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Helpful.

My husband left me two weeks ago, so thanks for your sensitivity.
You're welcome. Back atcha. (See the smiley indicating a joke?)

Besides, the webcam to your bedroom has been broken for a month. - In other words, pulling a personal tragedy out of a hat as an excuse to lash out is uncouth at best. People don't read minds, and not everyone follows the lives of other people closely enough to know personal details. To expect that is outrageous.

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Old 11-23-2019, 05:32 AM
 
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I tried 'LosersOnly.com' but found most of the people were ex-cons, broke and have substance abuse problems

Perhaps my expectations were too high.
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Old 11-23-2019, 08:39 AM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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I don't understand this but then I've never used OLD.


4 times a month or more seems like a lot to me, almost like trying to take over someone's life. What am I missing?
If I were dating someone I liked I'd want to see them 4x a week if not more
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Old 11-23-2019, 09:00 AM
 
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I haven't read the whole thread as I'm not in the market but if I were, I would look for companionship through contacts with those who have shared interests.

What would bother me about OLD would be meeting people with whom I had no frame of reference such as friends in common, meeting through an organization, etc. You know nothing about this person except what they choose to tell you and how they choose to present themselves. While I know people who have met their spouses through OLD, the above is just my personal opinion.

I met a very nice older widower yesterday on a group hike. And there have been several second marriages occurring through my church. I may be wrong, but I would suspect that members of a church such as mine, which attracts a more intellectual crowd, would place less emphasis on age and physical appearance than on education and common interests.
Again, JMHO.
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Old 11-23-2019, 09:05 AM
 
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I once filled out a dating application..it asked what I wanted most in a woman ?

Apparently the answer I gave was not appropriate.....
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Old 11-23-2019, 09:08 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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When I go hiking, I saw lot of women, not sure if they are single or not, but the men were outnumbered by a ratio of 10/1.
When I’m playing pickleball, it’s the opposite. Again, not sure they are single or not, but their significant others were not there.
So pick the activities you like and do, you will meet people.
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Old 11-23-2019, 09:09 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I once filled out a dating application..it asked what I wanted most in a woman ?

Apparently the answer I gave was not appropriate.....
You want ribs with BBQ sauce?
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Old 11-23-2019, 09:15 AM
 
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You want ribs with BBQ sauce?
Or Lipitor as a dry rub
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