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Old 08-12-2019, 03:26 AM
 
Location: Mount Airy, Maryland
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I feel badly for anyone who ever felt that sex with your spouse was a chore.
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Old 08-12-2019, 04:00 AM
 
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I feel badly for anyone who ever felt that sex with your spouse was a chore.
and if they happen to like it just think of it as a bonus ha ha ha
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Old 08-12-2019, 04:14 AM
 
Location: Phila & NYC
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Of course sex is still important, and if a little help is needed in the way of Viagra, it is now pretty cheap using the "goodrx" app.
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Old 08-12-2019, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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I feel badly for anyone who ever felt that sex with your spouse was a chore.
When you have a newborn and a 2 year old, you're breastfeeding, you have a house to take care, meals to make, grocery shopping, etc. and your husband is pestering you for sex the minute your 6 week check-up is over, it becomes another chore.
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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I have found the longer you go without sex (I'm a widow), the less important it becomes. I don't even bother going on dating sites anymore because men my age look too old and they still want sex. I'm not sure I want sex anymore and I have no problem staying single till I die.
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:03 AM
 
Location: Central Florida
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No interest in it anymore. Maybe I never had all that much interest in it, or maybe it's a function of medication I'm taking, or maybe both.
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:04 AM
 
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many men also consider getting lucky , is when they leave you alone . so i guess it goes both ways .
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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Right up there with pizza. Oh hell ya!
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:38 AM
 
Location: delaware
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I'm 76 and still interested in sexual intimacy, although intercourse, the brass ring for most men, is not as interesting; and with some problems with pelvic adhesions, as a result of extensive surgery long ago, not always comfortable. I think I would miss the closeness and the bonding that can be a very desirable part of sex, but more than that, not always.




Catsy
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Old 08-12-2019, 07:39 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I was never in the habit of paying men for sex.

Why, OP? Are you looking to get it on with Sophia Loren?
What habit? It’s called side hustling for retirement income. Like driving Uber.
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