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Old 08-30-2012, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Nashua
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I'm trying to get a idea of the cost of a 2nd parent adoption in NY. It seems to be more of a process then in MA. Up to 6 month waiting period, home study, criminal background check and so forth. In MA for uncontested 2nd parent & step-parent the waiting period & home study can be waived saving time & money. However, due to timing we will probably need to complete our 2nd parent adoption in NY.

I've been on google and have found a lot about the current process. However, I have not found much about the average costs.

Anyone have experience with this and willing to share information about the costs?

Feel free to PM me.
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Old 09-02-2012, 11:27 AM
 
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Gets lots of quotes.

When I adopted years ago in Rochester, NY, it cost a fortune, and it should not have cost a fortune. I knew the mother, and it was a simple adoption.
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Old 09-03-2012, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Nashua
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Lovebrentwood- Was it a "full" &/or "Private" infant/child adoption? I know the cost of a "Private" adoption is most costly than on step-parent/2nd parent adoption. When researched private infant adoption it was an average of $25,000-$50,000.

I am specifically interested in the costs & process associated with step-parent / 2nd parent adoption. We are a married lesbian couple considering relocating to Rochester /NY state. Due to timing we might find ourselves needing to complete the 2nd parent adoption in NY state.

In our current state of MA I found generally a uncontested & simple 2nd parent adoption can be completed for $1,500-$2,500. Often for a 2nd parent adoption the for a home study and waiting period can be waived. Heck some people complete it privately with out a attorney.

Any information on costs & resources for 2nd parent adoption in New York State / Rochester City/ Monroe County?
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Old 09-07-2012, 12:31 PM
 
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Private. And those quotes are highway robbery! Sorry I can't help you with resources. Maybe a new post asking about a good adoption lawyer? I have found through experience that lawyers mis-handling an adoption can cost you dearly in many ways. It's very important to get the right person.

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Lovebrentwood- Was it a "full" &/or "Private" infant/child adoption? I know the cost of a "Private" adoption is most costly than on step-parent/2nd parent adoption. When researched private infant adoption it was an average of $25,000-$50,000.

I am specifically interested in the costs & process associated with step-parent / 2nd parent adoption. We are a married lesbian couple considering relocating to Rochester /NY state. Due to timing we might find ourselves needing to complete the 2nd parent adoption in NY state.

In our current state of MA I found generally a uncontested & simple 2nd parent adoption can be completed for $1,500-$2,500. Often for a 2nd parent adoption the for a home study and waiting period can be waived. Heck some people complete it privately with out a attorney.

Any information on costs & resources for 2nd parent adoption in New York State / Rochester City/ Monroe County?
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