sahm fairly new to sa wanting to make friends (fitness, women)

[Hedgehog_Mom]

Wow, I've never even thought of picking friends based on appearance...I didn't know people did that once they were out of high school.

For the OP, what about storytime at the library? Or going to a park near your house during the day? There are other moms out there who are just as eager to make friends as you are, you just have to put yourself where you can find them. Another good way is to sit outside in your front yard in the evening and let the kids play, say hi to everyone who walks past. Soon you'll have neighbors stopping to chat and if they have kids that seem to get along with your kids very well, you can suggest playdates.

[rynetwo]

Originally Posted by Newk

My wife is looking for friends, too.

Originally Posted by prim8

and a certain look is required for someone to be your wife's friend?

Originally Posted by Hedgehog_Mom

Wow, I've never even thought of picking friends based on appearance...I didn't know people did that once they were out of high school.

For the OP, what about storytime at the library? Or going to a park near your house during the day? There are other moms out there who are just as eager to make friends as you are, you just have to put yourself where you can find them. Another good way is to sit outside in your front yard in the evening and let the kids play, say hi to everyone who walks past. Soon you'll have neighbors stopping to chat and if they have kids that seem to get along with your kids very well, you can suggest playdates.

It might mean they a "looking" for a crowded bederoom...

[Pancho-Villa]

Sadly,it continues way beyond high school. Certain areas of the country are quite famous for it. Saw it in South Florida, NYC,Vegas and the Grandaddy of them all...Southern California. Groups of friends milling about, all looking similar both in appearance and dress.

[mrsrdqz86]

Thank you for the church suggestions...i will definitely look into them!

@hedgehog_mom we do storytime and park but being very shy i think its very difficult for me to strike up a conversation. I feel out of my comfort zone here but thats not always a bad thing right? thanks for the suggestions

[OnlyonthursSA]

Originally Posted by Newk

Pics?

hahaha

[miche111e]

There is a baptist church at 1604/Potranco. I can't remember the name, but it's just north of the Academy parking lot.

[sanantoniomac]

Meetup.com lists several "moms" groups...

Find Meetup groups near you - Meetup

[pobre]

I agree with the above...church (they usually have playgroups and adult groups)and MOPS are great places. If you involve your child in any YMCA sports, dance, gymnastics classes, etc., you'll meet others, too. Also, check out the school districts community education programs, both for your child and you.

[Hedgehog_Mom]

Originally Posted by mrsrdqz86

@hedgehog_mom we do storytime and park but being very shy i think its very difficult for me to strike up a conversation. I feel out of my comfort zone here but thats not always a bad thing right? thanks for the suggestions

It's easier to start talking to people when they have kids, because there's an automatic conversation-starter. Ask how old their child is, compliment an outfit, etc. Then they'll say something about your child, and the conversation is started. Or you can ask for advice about the area "We just moved here, I was wondering if there's a duck pond nearby?" (or whatever you want to ask) then they can ask where you moved from.

The more you talk to people, the easier it will get.

[Me007gold]

I think the most shocking thing about this post is 151/potranco is considered nw side of town