Dating life in SD for males? (San Diego: live in, store, activities)

[moved]

Originally Posted by BobbyBratty

Ok moved, why are you throwing shade at this poster?

Because he's obsessed with meeting someone "tough."

[BobbyBratty]

Originally Posted by moved

Because he's obsessed with meeting someone "tough."

Well we all like what we like and I dont see that as a bad thing. Unless his obsession veers into stalker mode.

[sxmfan2018]

Originally Posted by hitman619

These kids these days just don't appreciate good music.
To answer you question O.P.
Dating life in San Diego for man sucks unless you

A) Have money, Most Single chicks here in San Diego want to be a house wife living in Carmel Mountain, traveling the world. If they can't have that, they rather be alone with the occasional hook up from Tinder.

B) You're a good looking College dude at UCSD or SDSU
Try L.A. up the road

and what makes you think LA chicks are any different. it's simple you aint got no money then you aint got no honey

[eastcoastbias]

Some of you make this way too difficult. There are plenty of short, not uber wealthy or not wealthy or not trust funded something substantial, average looking men doing well with finding women.

On the surface, I’m actually surprised by the number of good looking women here that are with what are seemingly average Joes. But These average joes get it. Don’t get me wrong they have their stuff together too. They probably set an alarm and go to work and have adulthood down for the most part.

But The secret is...Don’t be a social idiot. And Don’t go shopping at bars at 2am (looking for relationships).

[tequila4less]

One of the main reasons why dating in SD sucks is because there is a huge amount of white thirsty single males that go after women well below their level. It is really depressing seeing White single males in great shape and attractiveness level going after skinny run-of-the-mill white, asian woman or a chubby latinas . So there is huge demand for female companionship by Whites dudes , given that many of them come from out-of-state .

Also another big reason is the nice weather along with the beaches in SD tend to relax the female-biology, contrary to what the female-biology would experience/react should they lived in relatively harsh weather and environment conditions such in cities like Phoenix,Houston,Minnesota,you name it, such cities force the female condition to flip to survival mode for the long term.

[djxpress]

Originally Posted by metoque

This is so true. I'll also throw in that you can't be short.

In San Diego 2 rules apply...

Rule 1: Be Attractive.
Rule 2: Don't be unattractive.

[GreenAbyss]

Originally Posted by eastcoastbias

Some of you make this way too difficult. There are plenty of short, not uber wealthy or not wealthy or not trust funded something substantial, average looking men doing well with finding women.

On the surface, I’m actually surprised by the number of good looking women here that are with what are seemingly average Joes. But These average joes get it. Don’t get me wrong they have their stuff together too. They probably set an alarm and go to work and have adulthood down for the most part.

But The secret is...Don’t be a social idiot. And Don’t go shopping at bars at 2am (looking for relationships).

I agree with everything you said, especially about the people making things way too difficult! They make it far harder than it has to be!

But I will also say most of these men don't even have adulthood life down yet. Same for the women as well, many of the women in SD still don't know have adulthood down yet.

[djxpress]

Originally Posted by eastcoastbias

There are plenty of short, not uber wealthy or not wealthy or not trust funded something substantial, average looking men doing well with finding women.

My guess is they're the average, white joes dating the good looking, white worshiping, asian females. That's what I've seen stick out around SD in increased numbers over the last 10 years.

[BarbellFanatic]

Jesus this is almost the most depressing thread I've ever read about a city's dating life.

[expatCA]

Originally Posted by GreenAbyss

I agree with everything you said, especially about the people making things way too difficult! They make it far harder than it has to be!

But I will also say most of these men don't even have adulthood life down yet. Same for the women as well, many of the women in SD still don't know have adulthood down yet.

Yes, there is a vast difference between being a "man" and a legally adult male (Ditto female).


CA seems to suffer from this a bit more as they seem to feel CA is so laid back that ... well getting laid is normal for anyone, at any time.