Would Sarasota area be a good for an older gay couple? (Miami: home, neighborhood)

[Frida7]

Gettinoutofjersey, it doesn't matter if "everyone" loves them.
I DO live here, & gave the advice that was requested, you DON'T live here, so your comment is irrelevant.

[gettinoutofjersey]

Originally Posted by gypsychic

It's really sad that in this day and age there are so many people like you who have to "hate" anybody just because they are different from you. It is really a good thing you don't actually live in Sarasota. Most here are accepting of everyone, and this city has people from all walks of life and in general pretty much live-and-let-live. I don't blame the OP for asking his question. He certainly would want to avoid small-minded people like you.

you need to get out from your small circle of friends. check out the polls that are taken. what someone does behind closed doors is one thing. hetero or homo i really dont want it pushed on me. i want to decide what i see. and it is up to each to decide what is vulgar and disgusting. unfortunately you are forced to tolerate me and my views as much as i must endure yours. that is called the first amendment, you know what we, or at least some of us served to protect.

[Frida7]

Gettinoutofjersey, I have a pretty good idea what you want to see.
http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/th...-gay-male-porn

[Frida7]

Homophobic Men Most Aroused by Gay Male Porn By Nathan A. Heflick, Ph.D. on June 9, 2011 - 5:26pm

Even a man who thought that women want to have sex with their fathers, and that women spend much of their lives distraught over their lack of a penis, is right sometimes. This person, the legend that is Sigmund Freud, theorized that people often have the most hateful and negative attitudes towards things they secretly crave, but feel that they shouldn't have.

If Freud is right, then perhaps men who are the most opposed to male homosexuality have particularly strong homosexual urges for other men.
One study asked heterosexal men how comfortable and anxious they are around gay men. Based on these scores, they then divided these men into two groups: men that are homophobic, and men who are not. These men were then shown three, four-minute videos. One video depicted straight sex, one depicted lesbian sex and one depicted gay male sex. While this was happening, a device was attached to each participant's penis. This device has been found to be triggered by sexual arousal, but not other types of arousal (such as nervousness, or fear - arousal often has a very different meaning in psychology than in popular usage).
When viewing lesbian sex and straight sex, both the homophobic and the non-homophobic men showed increased penis circumference. For gay male sex, however, only the homophobic men showed heightened penis arousal.

Heterosexual men with the most anti-gay attitudes, when asked, reported not being sexually aroused by gay male sex videos. But, their penises reported otherwise.

Homophobic men were the most sexually aroused by gay male sex acts.

[Frida7]

I find it telling that a man who claims he doesn't want, in his own ironic choice of words, "it pushed on me"
would care enough about a thread discussing homosexuality, to take time out of his day to get so involved in such a discussion.
Numerous times.

[NYtoOsprey]

Originally Posted by kyle19125

Not everyone hates, unless one is a card-carrying GOP supporter like yourself. And for the record, most of the rest of the country seems to prefer gay people over "monster trucks".

he'd be really confused by gay people with monster trucks i suppose.

[gettinoutofjersey]

Originally Posted by Frida7

Homophobic Men Most Aroused by Gay Male Porn By Nathan A. Heflick, Ph.D. on June 9, 2011 - 5:26pm

Even a man who thought that women want to have sex with their fathers, and that women spend much of their lives distraught over their lack of a penis, is right sometimes. This person, the legend that is Sigmund Freud, theorized that people often have the most hateful and negative attitudes towards things they secretly crave, but feel that they shouldn't have.

If Freud is right, then perhaps men who are the most opposed to male homosexuality have particularly strong homosexual urges for other men.
One study asked heterosexal men how comfortable and anxious they are around gay men. Based on these scores, they then divided these men into two groups: men that are homophobic, and men who are not. These men were then shown three, four-minute videos. One video depicted straight sex, one depicted lesbian sex and one depicted gay male sex. While this was happening, a device was attached to each participant's penis. This device has been found to be triggered by sexual arousal, but not other types of arousal (such as nervousness, or fear - arousal often has a very different meaning in psychology than in popular usage).
When viewing lesbian sex and straight sex, both the homophobic and the non-homophobic men showed increased penis circumference. For gay male sex, however, only the homophobic men showed heightened penis arousal.

Heterosexual men with the most anti-gay attitudes, when asked, reported not being sexually aroused by gay male sex videos. But, their penises reported otherwise.

Homophobic men were the most sexually aroused by gay male sex acts.

thats pretty scary that you can pull info like that up so fast. no telling what you are into.

and as for this term "homophobic"? phobic means scared of something. that sure is not the truth. repulsed, sickened, disgusted, yes - scared no.

[gettinoutofjersey]

Originally Posted by kyle19125

Not everyone hates, unless one is a card-carrying GOP supporter like yourself. And for the record, most of the rest of the country seems to prefer gay people over "monster trucks".

you should explore your own party first before degrading GOP's. the democrats are openly accepting all muslims, terrorists or not. if you do a bit of research you will find that muslims do not tolerate gays at all. in fact the punishment under their law is death. what a conflict now. shows how stupid the blind following liberals are.

[Frida7]

Originally Posted by gettinoutofjersey

thats pretty scary that you can pull info like that up so fast. no telling what you are into.

and as for this term "homophobic"? phobic means scared of something. that sure is not the truth. repulsed, sickened, disgusted, yes - scared no.

Using semantics to deflect? Really?
Ya gotta do better than that.

[GTK473]

Originally Posted by gettinoutofjersey

you should explore your own party first before degrading GOP's. the democrats are openly accepting all muslims, terrorists or not. if you do a bit of research you will find that muslims do not tolerate gays at all. in fact the punishment under their law is death. what a conflict now. shows how stupid the blind following liberals are.

Actually, what intrigues me, is why you hang out here, so to say, and try to turn this into a hate fest. I think you doth protest too much. Your responses are so clearly homophobic, perhaps you need to look inward! ... to this and other aspects of your life. Most would respond and let it go, you seem to have a perverse nature!