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NAF, you are not a...ual!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!If I said it once, I'll say it a thousand times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you want to cuddle with another male? NO! Guess waht - you're not GAY! Do you want to cuddle with not a soul? NO!! You're not a...ual!! Do you want to cuddle with a curvy woman? YES! Well, you figure it out.... You have some serious hang-ups. Not one person here agrees with you, everyone is arguing your point, some are trying to be nice while others like myself are really loosing our patience!!!!!!!
You say children are Gods gift, absolutely!
Then how dare you say that when they are grown in test tubes, they can be eliminated if they are not perfect? Perfect to the human eye? What exactly is the definition of a perfect human being? Are you perfect? Should you have been aborted? Should anyone have made that decision as to wether you should live or die?
You are twisted, I just can't be nice about it!
Ask 100 priests, who all believe that you should abstain from sex tilll married and then stay together if they agree with you on all other points. My guess is 100 would adamantly disagree with you.
Women have been giving birth for a very long time, men and woman have been having sex for a very long time, and the human race is growing by leaps and bounds, we are not being killed off!
Life is to be lived....maybe you should start living yours.
NAF, you are not a...ual!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!If I said it once, I'll say it a thousand times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you want to cuddle with another male? NO! Guess waht - you're not GAY! Do you want to cuddle with not a soul? NO!! You're not a...ual!! Do you want to cuddle with a curvy woman? YES! Well, you figure it out.... You have some serious hang-ups. Not one person here agrees with you, everyone is arguing your point, some are trying to be nice while others like myself are really loosing our patience!!!!!!!
You say children are Gods gift, absolutely!
Then how dare you say that when they are grown in test tubes, they can be eliminated if they are not perfect? Perfect to the human eye? What exactly is the definition of a perfect human being? Are you perfect? Should you have been aborted? Should anyone have made that decision as to wether you should live or die?
You are twisted, I just can't be nice about it!
Ask 100 priests, who all believe that you should abstain from sex tilll married and then stay together if they agree with you on all other points. My guess is 100 would adamantly disagree with you.
Women have been giving birth for a very long time, men and woman have been having sex for a very long time, and the human race is growing by leaps and bounds, we are not being killed off!
Life is to be lived....maybe you should start living yours.
He will as long as it doesn't involve any DIRTY, SWEATY, HOT, PASSIONATE, SEX.
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NAH: And it could kill you. I just finished reading an article about penile injury causing pain shocks causing death!
Be careful, hun when mating. One lady fractured her pelvis! I have no reason to mate, but you did. You are right, I cant comment on something I didnt try but I can comment on the risks and know well enough not to risk my health(see my thread in health section)
Boy, missed this thread for awhile. Back to the same topic, I see. Mating vs. no mating, vs. sex, vs. craziness.
You know, I think I Love PA is right. At first, I was believing the "I'm an asexual" explanation. But it doesn't jive with you reading SOOOO much about SEX! Plus, you do seem to get into the details about cuddling a curvy woman! And the many ways that you can "cuddle."
Quite frankly, I think you're enjoying these sexual posts because it gives you some weird pleasure by reading them -- porn by posts. And, yes, you are definitely too isolated. And I think you've developed a mental disorder because of your phobia of sex. It's like getting killed by a sting ray on an airplane when you're flying over the ocean! Somehow it will penetrate the plane, swoosh into your window, and as the plane loses altitude and before it can regain it, the sting ray flies through the air like you're a magnet, aims at your heart, and BAM!, you're dead from a sting ray while flying OVER the ocean in an airplane!!
I think you're really interested in sex -- there's way too much talk of "cuddling," and I'll guess there's some other issues that we are unaware of that lead you to think that maybe all you'll ever end up with is cuddling.
I've got a headache tonight and your posts are making it worse (HELP -- I THINK I NEED SOME SEX TO GET RID OF MY HEADACHE!!)
As an aside, I actually .... get this... and I refuse to reveal a real name....confidentiality ... a REAL TEST TUBE BABY who is now in high school (nooooo, not my daughter!)....and....she is ASEXUAL!! She doesn't even have an interest in cuddling! How about that for a combination considering your posts?? Weird, huh? Coincidence -- I think not -- I think the Powers That Be sent me on a UFO along with the blue latex men to tell you!! Of course, the teenaged test tube baby is too young for you, but if you were really asexual, I don't think any thought of physical, close, touching would appeal to you. Hmmmmmm.....I think you are putting us on.....
Good posts -- read through them all and can't keep giving positive reps to all those I wanted to because I have to keep "spreading the love," but sure enjoyed reading them!! Thanks!
NAF, you are not a...ual!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!If I said it once, I'll say it a thousand times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you want to cuddle with another male? NO! Guess waht - you're not GAY! Do you want to cuddle with not a soul? NO!! You're not a...ual!! Do you want to cuddle with a curvy woman? YES! Well, you figure it out.... You have some serious hang-ups. Not one person here agrees with you, everyone is arguing your point, some are trying to be nice while others like myself are really loosing our patience!!!!!!!
You say children are Gods gift, absolutely!
Then how dare you say that when they are grown in test tubes, they can be eliminated if they are not perfect? Perfect to the human eye? What exactly is the definition of a perfect human being? Are you perfect? Should you have been aborted? Should anyone have made that decision as to wether you should live or die?
You are twisted, I just can't be nice about it!
Ask 100 priests, who all believe that you should abstain from sex tilll married and then stay together if they agree with you on all other points. My guess is 100 would adamantly disagree with you.
Women have been giving birth for a very long time, men and woman have been having sex for a very long time, and the human race is growing by leaps and bounds, we are not being killed off!
Life is to be lived....maybe you should start living yours.
You can place whatever label you want. I would not consider someone gay if they cuddled with their own gender or even if they kissed. Read somewhere that 90% of men have kissed another man unrelated to him. Probably like 98% of women have kissed another woman unrelated to her. Doesnt mean they are gay because it can be platonic. I see women cuddling with other women alot, especially back when I was in high school. Dont see many guys cuddling with guys, asked some of the women why and they say women loooooooove to cuddle, but most guys dont. Well this one does! I would cuddle with a guy but a woman with nice soft curves is what I prefer in my arms
I am sorry, friend that you disagree. You are entitled to your opinion but you can not change the fact that recreational mating and pregnancy is dangerous, hence why test tube technology marches on. I expect to see in real life what I saw in the movies. I am saying the couple has the choice to "abort" the test tube baby(which is grown in a tube) if there are major handicaps. I am also saying science and genetic engineering can create perfect babies. I wish I wasnt born nearly deaf. I am prochoice and feel that it is up to the parents to decide, that is all.
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Boy, missed this thread for awhile. Back to the same topic, I see. Mating vs. no mating, vs. sex, vs. craziness.
You know, I think I Love PA is right. At first, I was believing the "I'm an asexual" explanation. But it doesn't jive with you reading SOOOO much about SEX! Plus, you do seem to get into the details about cuddling a curvy woman! And the many ways that you can "cuddle."
Quite frankly, I think you're enjoying these sexual posts because it gives you some weird pleasure by reading them -- porn by posts. And, yes, you are definitely too isolated. And I think you've developed a mental disorder because of your phobia of sex. It's like getting killed by a sting ray on an airplane when you're flying over the ocean! Somehow it will penetrate the plane, swoosh into your window, and as the plane loses altitude and before it can regain it, the sting ray flies through the air like you're a magnet, aims at your heart, and BAM!, you're dead from a sting ray while flying OVER the ocean in an airplane!!
I think you're really interested in sex -- there's way too much talk of "cuddling," and I'll guess there's some other issues that we are unaware of that lead you to think that maybe all you'll ever end up with is cuddling.
I've got a headache tonight and your posts are making it worse (HELP -- I THINK I NEED SOME SEX TO GET RID OF MY HEADACHE!!)
As an aside, I actually .... get this... and I refuse to reveal a real name....confidentiality ... a REAL TEST TUBE BABY who is now in high school (nooooo, not my daughter!)....and....she is ASEXUAL!! She doesn't even have an interest in cuddling! How about that for a combination considering your posts?? Weird, huh? Coincidence -- I think not -- I think the Powers That Be sent me on a UFO along with the blue latex men to tell you!! Of course, the teenaged test tube baby is too young for you, but if you were really asexual, I don't think any thought of physical, close, touching would appeal to you. Hmmmmmm.....I think you are putting us on.....
Good posts -- read through them all and can't keep giving positive reps to all those I wanted to because I have to keep "spreading the love," but sure enjoyed reading them!! Thanks!
Actually, I read about abstinence, not ***. Two different beasts. Cuddling is first base, well I suppose you could consider me a***ual type 1. Type 2 is rare and most of them are women. Type 1 a***ual means the person has no interest in mating or anything of a ***ual nature and sticks to first base, sometimes foraying into second base but no further! Type 2 means the person is not interested in any bases, not even first base. That person does not find other humans any more attractive than say what I would find a flower attractive. That person could judge physical qualities just as I could judge a "perfect" flower. I could probably get a type 2 to cuddle with a good excuse, like its cold and lets keep warm or maybe that person is scared and cuddling brings security. Fear is an emotion and its exceedly rare to see a person lack emotions, I would not be interested in anyone of that nature.
An a***ual type 1 like me is attracted differently than a hetero***ual. The best example I can say is I dont care to see nakid women(nor men) and actually it can be somewhat ugly or gross. Definately keep your cloth on, youll look much better that way anyway and cloth that fit you securely really accent your natural curves. I dont want anything ***ual. No porn, no nudity, nothing past second base for me. Hope this definition and explanation helps.
Oh hun, try lighting a scented candle to rid your headache, usually works for me
WOW.. I can't believe there are people out there like that actually...
Me however, I get all antsy in the pantsy seeing naked women.
I hesistated to step into this thread, because I disagree with the word mating and test tube babies....babies are created out of love.
But I personally am around 40 and a virgin. I have had no interest at all in the physcial act of sex. I have had many of dates in the past want me to do it but I just couldn't get interested. I went to therapy and been to the doctor and all blood work, etc checks out normal, but as someone said I can see someone naked and nothing happens at all. Cant explain it any other way. I initially thought I might be gay, but I dont want a man nor a woman. Just no interest period in physical act of sex. I do like close friends (male and female) to hang out with but thats it.
I hesistated to step into this thread, because I disagree with the word mating and test tube babies....babies are created out of love.
But I personally am around 40 and a virgin. I have had no interest at all in the physcial act of sex. I have had many of dates in the past want me to do it but I just couldn't get interested. I went to therapy and been to the doctor and all blood work, etc checks out normal, but as someone said I can see someone naked and nothing happens at all. Cant explain it any other way. I initially thought I might be gay, but I dont want a man nor a woman. Just no interest period in physical act of sex. I do like close friends (male and female) to hang out with but thats it.
Dan
It is still love if the female uses her egg and the male uses her sperm and the baby grows in a test tube. The only difference is the woman doesnt have to suffer pregnancy(some actually do enjoy the pain)
Wow your 40 and a virgin just like in the movies? You could be my lost cousin! If the doctors said you are normal, then I also am normal and I dont have to waste money to get the answer that I am normal because I know this from google. We are the normal ones, they are the abnormal ones! Ive also seen nakid people and nothing happens. Well actually something did happen, I woke up with morning wood that wouldnt go away so I googled up "porn" and a softcore porn of a woman showed up and bam, 10 seconds later my wood was gone! Porn is a turnoff, no kidding!
Have you done third base? Second? Ive only done first base and second base is as far as ill go. Do you still like to cuddle? What kind of attraction do you have for women? Your own gender(males)? I am attracted to curves in women and also their wonderful long hair I love cuddling but nothing else interests me. Well kissing would interest me a little if its not a french kiss type(yuck drool)
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