Sonrise, you say,
[quote=Sonrise]Marks,
you did attack Dawn and were wrong in doing so. While I can appreciate your'e defensive pride of your homestate you had no tact whatsoever and made it personal. Dawn is correct, btw. Greenville is ranked on almost every site as the worst "air quality" in the USA. You should do some research before you lash out at someone and tell them they're wrong. QUOTE]
So after I read your statement, Sonrise, I'm thinking "Oh, Lord not this again!"
Dawn stated on 6-18-06 the “Greenville scores #1 in the country with worst air quality!â€
I responded on the same day (6-18-06) with the following:
“Dawn, I don't know where your getting your information from, but your post saying that Greenville has the worst air quality is not accurate at all. In fact if you Google "cities with the worst air quality" no South Carolina city is even in the top 25? So please refrain from making inaccurate statements without facts.â€
Can anyone tell in the paragraph my “anger� my “tone of voice� my “insensitiveness� I don’t.
She then responded on 6-19-06 with the following:
“Marks, I am appalled and taken aback by your rude, insensitive response to my air quality inquiry!... I didn't appreciate the tone of "Please refrain from…I found your post very hurtful.â€
I then responded the same day with the following:
“Dawn,
1. Your wrong and others sites are wrong anyone knows Los Angles, CA has and continues to have the worst air quality bar none in the nation. And that's a fact! so Greenville could not have the worst air quality. Maybe in SC but I seriously doubt that.
2. You did not say "bad allergy day in Greenville" that's different. Greenville may well have bad allergy days worst in the nation "on some days." That might be true.
3. You say, "I am appalled and taken aback by your rude, insensitive response to my air quality inquiry!" and "I didn't appreciate the tone" and again "I found your post very hurtful."? Oh please, your talking about a message board with a query about air quality? Grow up.
4. Maybe you should learn to take factual criticism a little better.â€
Now, I do admit that “these†statements were less then helpful. Also, Dawn and I, in private message, have apologized to each other and we’ve moved on. Not sure why your digging this up? Also, I’m not from Greenville and I do not live in Greenville—yet
I believed that stating something that was not correct, which could have been perceived as FACT, might have turned many folks off to the Greenville area.
So, I’m unclear as to why you brought this up, and why you stated to me just now,
“you did attack Dawn and were wrong in doing so…you had no tact whatsoever and made it personal…You should do some research before you lash out at someone and tell them they're wrong.â€
I defended you when you and comin were getting into it over your repeated insistence they move to liberal Asheville instead of Greenville. What about that exchange?
Dawn and I are clear with each other we have dropped it, can you?
Thanks
Mark